I actually think that the antidote to the gender confusion of today is precisely a return to the substance of masculinity and femininity, rather than the accidents.

As far as I can tell, we've lost sight of the substances and replaced them with empty stereotypes, and as a result, those who don't fit the stereotypes are instantly thrown into crisis. They have nothing of substance to fall back on when the appearance of their masculinity or femininity is called into question.

It's a consequence of being told by our culture that our identity is liquid and self-made. When that is the belief, there is nothing to root out identifying deeper than the surface.