Sending hugs to all.
We have all but quit the big holiday gatherings and it is so much better for all of us mentally and physically. We spend some time with the people who mean the most (not necessarily blood) and want our company early in the month before Christmas, then Christmas Eve night and Christmas Day are for our family of 3. Our kid enjoys doing his thing on Christmas morning and then we spend the day playing with our gifts. I don't stress out about making everyone else comfortable and happy at my own expense and I don't dread the holiday season anymore. Just food for thought and hopes that you all feel better soon 🫂💜