How can women give up their need for men

Female independence is easier said than done. This is not a so-called willpower decision, a woman through the channel of awakening, through constant painful experience, can finally understand that simple truth, that is, it is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself. But what is interesting is an arrangement of this world. The world we live in is a dualistic world based on the operation of yin and yang. Everything in the world, from the sky and the stars, the sun, the moon and the stars, to the flowers blooming and falling, the ebb and flow of the tide, all seem to be properly arranged. Men and women, like the sun and the moon, are indispensable to the earth. If the sun is a man's sexual consciousness, then the moon is a woman's sexual consciousness. In fact, the earth is the common basis of men and women as "people", that is, we are all the children of the earth.

Therefore, it is not easy for women to be independent, not only to get rid of the need for energy balance between men and women, but also to get rid of their emotional dependence. Women always feel the need for a man to take care of herself and give herself a sense of security. Have a broad shoulder to lean on when you are hurt, aggrieved and depressed, and a strong body to cover you when the sky falls. So women need fathers when they are young, and this attachment gradually extends to the need for a man in adulthood, which women call "true love". So all the sweet love stories are women and birds who fall into the arms of that handsome and strong man and live happily together. This innate, or lack of childhood need for "protection" leads women to think of love in this world as sense of security, tolerance, acceptance, eternity, and selfless dedication. In fact, the handsome male god you think is probably just an Oedipus mama's boy.

For women, if they accidentally step into a fixed intimate relationship, the follow-up problems are even more difficult to sustain than the psychological problems at the beginning. Because just as a woman is the moon, the physical structure of a woman will also be "carried" by the moon. There are always a few days every month, hungry and thirsty. Women think it's a normal sexual need, so when you spend some time with him and find that the man around you can't even provide this kind of "share", a woman's worldview begins to collapse. But the body and the moon are so uncontrollable that even if you say "it's all the fault of the moon", how to deal with the dryness and heat that continues to stir up in your body? You choose to practice yoga, you choose to climb mountains, but in the end, you can't help but choose a "spiritual space" with men. Driven by these pressures, poor women always seem so unnatural in some collective activities, running counter to their own design of aloof people.

Therefore, the above two topics are inescapable for most women, and this lesson can only be achieved through a deep understanding, operation and sublimation of the integration of body and mind. And this so-called operation varies from person to person, and the market is full of so many fallacies and deceptions.

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In the physiological structure of women, sexual energy will continue to accumulate over time. This process is similar to the principle of static electricity generation. This phenomenon must be inevitable as long as it becomes an entity and exists in this world. Just like an apple, it will gradually rot, but also because its surface will accumulate energy (electric charge), and this energy will neutralize its internal energy, and the binding force that consumes the original aggregation of matter will eventually become dispersed. That is, the physical appearance of the apple is "born", and the process of apple decay is "extinction". Of course, the topic in this field of science is too complicated for women.

People need to pay more attention to some allergic reactions on their own body surface. Women, actually all people, but women and children are more sensitive, that is, you need to be touched by others. Children need to be touched by their parents, while women need to be touched by men. Because in fact, the process of touching is a process of neutralizing the energy of the body surface. We can compare women with negative charges and men with positive charges. But all charges do not appear until self-awareness is established, because they do not absorb charge until they are self-aware (from the age of 7 to teenage sexual development for children), because the self is actually a kind of borderline attraction.

Therefore, the need for this balance of yin and yang is not generated in the brain, but the natural development of a person's physical consciousness. By constantly squeezing our instincts, we achieve a so-called "decent", "decent" nobility, which is very cruel to ourselves, and this cruelty will gradually spill over into intimate relationships. to be hostile to him and his own child.

But we also understand that this cannot be easily achieved, so we live as a model of concealing and ignoring our internal needs. This model poses a bigger problem, because as the charge increases, the pressure, that is, the similar voltage, gets higher and higher. And this causes allergies, that is, you may feel electrocuted as soon as you touch it. And this voltage, sensitivity, causes the interior of our bodies to be affected by changes in the environment, that is, the rotation of the moon, the lack of a full moon. So there are always "coincidences" of intense "needs" within a woman's body in those days. In fact, this is not a coincidence, but their own natural demand for energy that has not been balanced for a long time, that is, if there is no small one, it becomes bigger.

This model not only appears physically, but also includes emotional needs and consumption and so on. Emotionally, a person has been unable to get attention, so when a man comes over and hypocritically projects his love for you, you will lose your mind and throw yourself into your arms, and finally be deceived and leave the field. Many famous people actually have symptoms of emotional allergy. And this is what every woman should pay attention to and adjust on a daily basis.The embodiment of consumer demand is even more simple, for example, when a person is in love, she does not need to buy anything, but when she is lovelorn or is indifferent to a man after marriage, she will buy things to retaliate. In fact, this is also a release of internal pressure. If a woman can have something she likes, jewelry or all kinds of interesting things in her daily life, then her heart will be much more balanced. But the difficulty has become that it is an extravagant hope for a person to keep something he really likes.

So the lack of women's heart is the crux of all these problems, we should understand ourselves more, understand human nature, not just abuse or prohibit.

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