@FitzClaridge I also wonder if you are the all mighty creator of the environment in which they can make their own decisions, if that isn't just another name for ruling, because their options will be limited by the alternatives you present in the environment you create.
Replying to https://twitter.com/FitzClaridge/status/1602331252144898048:
@FitzClaridge While I understand (and agree to) your points, it is still not clear to me, in practice, what "create an environment in which they can make their own decisions" means, specially in regards to brush their teeth or not, take shower or not and, mostly, take a medicine or not.
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@FitzClaridge I'm a follower and a fan, and these are legitimate questions. Another one is: what is the role of scary or unpleasant options in this 'environment' or in a negotiation. Not 'do it or I'll punish you' threats, but a 'take medicine x goto hospital' real option. Are they acceptable?