I finally understand what you were meaning here and I agree. Clients just need to be better about user feedback when gossiping. Like nostrudel, how it shows the relays that accepted the note, and the ones that didn't. If it detects that all the relays failed to accept it, there can be additional prompting like, this user only has relays with access control, visit the relay landing page? Stuff like that. Thanks for helping me think about this stuff. Sometimes I am way down in the relay trenches and I have to poke my head up and figure out what's goin on in the client world to make sure I can match to it. 🤙