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How do you keep your heart open after having your heartbroken?

It’s a question I don’t an answer for.

Do you think it’s possible to fully trust and love again after having your trust in love and relationships ruined? Is it possible to heal yourself absolutely and trust that not all people are the same?

Or it doesn’t matter where you go, trauma will always follow you around and sabotage your relationships?

I honestly think trauma is something you learn to deal with,but you never truly overcome. It lives inside of you,with a minor degree of importance,once you learn how to live with it,but will be always there lurking around your deepest fears and hopes.

How do you feel about it? Share with me your thoughts and opinions. 💜🫂

The Fishcake (nostr.build) 2y ago

So, have plenty of experience with being traumatized by betrayals and what not. The lesson I learn again and again, is that I am stronger than I think I am. What that leads to, is that it doesn’t hurt me in the end. You develop immunity and manage to recover quickly. Trusting others (within reason) is a strength and virtue, so work on developing it. In the end it is between you and yourself, and as long as you can trust yourself, you can trust others. Learn to be self-sufficient and learn to be the one who opens the road toward trust by being the first to demonstrate trust. Hope that helps! 🐶🐾🫂💜

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Mallory 2y ago

“As long as you can trust yourself, you can trust others” I think that’s one of the most important parts of the puzzle that’s seldom discussed. After a horrible breakup or betrayal focus on regaining trust in yourself.