It's part of what trans activists want. They demand that everyone use the gender that they identify as, so even if a male with big beard and has all his genitalia intact decides he indentifies as a woman we are to believe it's true and behave as if its true by using she & her to refer to him. To refuse is considered "transphobic" and you will be canceled, unless you are JK Rowling or Dave Chapelle. Also a lot of males who identify as women demand to play in womens sports and you are not allowed to oppose it. This sort of stuff has been big news for a few years now but clearly you haven't been paying attention