With a great deal of hesitation towards even entering this conversation the only thing I want to say is that one of the reasons why several clients have NIP-42 is because we (nostr.wine) paid 500k sat bounties per client (Amethyst, Damus, Snort and Iris) and raised a lot of awareness about why NIP-42 matters.
Iām not sure why you think we owe you anything besides a reliable relay.