Iām married to a fiat nutritionist. I eat and workout like you(though not as performant) for last 8 years. Zero change in her opinion. I love her(40 years) so I do not die on this hill with her. Change comes from within or above āļø.
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Something similar happens to my wife, she says that my way of eating(I don't like to call it diet) an it doesn't work for her.
She sneakily eats sweets, chocolate with sugar and all kinds of junk food š.
On the other hand I am aware that anything bad that happens to me will be blamed on my eating š, it's a losing battle.