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I have a question about friendship 🫂

Since i think #nostr is a place where a lot of intelligent people are right now, i think it’s the perfect place to ask this.

I have often heard about a phenomenon that intelligent people seem to have less friends or less social interaction. That is also what i can observe in my own life. I don’t want to say that i am more intelligent than other people, but i find that the things i want to talk about often do not resonate with others or they treat it much more on the surface than i do. So i really struggle to make deep connections. Most if not all of my few friendships are very superficial.

So my question is, do you experience similar things? 🤔

VOLKER - Voice Of Logic Knowledge Experience & Responsibility 2y ago

Distinguish between people you know and friends you would trust with your seed words ☝️

Opposite to common sense ("friendship ends when money gets involved"), true friendship does not suffer from money. Money is orthogonal to true friendship, just like #Bitcoin is orthogonal to law.

Let's say you bought some digital currency early and it gains a lot, then a friend is happy for you, while the acquaintance is envious.

It's normal to only have few friends. The ones you have, their value grows over time. The other ones, the acquaintances? You care less about them every year.

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Noerms 2y ago

Well for me it’s like i care less for all of them every year 😅😔

VOLKER - Voice Of Logic Knowledge Experience & Responsibility 2y ago

That has reasons 😁

Noerms 2y ago

Yes. I don’t regret it. But i am still concerned i put to less effort in building friendships