Ok. I'm not sure what your point was that you are resting, but go Marie! Congrats on .. um.. whatever.
I don't share his opinion. But he and I are probably both straight men in the same kind of way. He has a different defintion of gay (that's just linguistic, not an actual difference) and a different attitude towards gay men and their practices (I have no problem with them, I just don't want to be involved in them or to see them). But in terms of attraction I don't think he is any different than I am.
Straight men are attracted to (attractive) women and are not attracted to men at all. If straight men are watching something and aroused by it, I guarantee it was a female, irrespective of who else might be in the scene.