Does your paid relays allow me to write a reply to them? If I use The Outbox Model will I will be able publish to you?
It's a fighting battle the free relays will never win. I had to remove your relay and I stopped seeing spam.
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I'm sticking to paid relays. Even a tiny fee of 21 sats like nostr21.com keeps bots away.
https://mar101xy.com/uploader/images/2025/06/02/nostr-spam-relays.webp
Discussion
I'm not sure. I'm not an expert in relays. All I know is my relay is working fine, I can message anyone and there's no spam.