Sometimes I am confronted with just how flimsy reality is.

Usually these confrontations seem to come in a negative form with a tragedy like an accident or the loss of a loved one. Something that happens instantly and changes your world forever. You are pushed from one reality in to another.

But these phase shifts do not have to be negative and thrust on us.

We can chose to make decisions that change our lives radically for the better. By breaking patterns and actively moving towards a different life we will find ourselves loving that different life.

We don't have to wait until life pushes us in to another reality, we can choose to step in to it.