I added and removed from Amethyst so many times. Petnames for me must be private. Most people assume it to be private: like calling a brother "Replaceable Parts", etc. If you use the public version make sure to tell people that it is public.
How important are pet names to you? Is anyone aware of ANY clients using petnames today as a reference implementation?
I'm considering ways to add to Corny Chat using NIP-32 labels, or nostr:npub1gcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqlfnj5z NIP-81 Relationship Status (https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/pull/761)
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Agreed on the privacy aspects.
I have a contact list on my phone and for emails and neither are global access.