I’ve been thinking a lot recently about improving my life and becoming more aware of my unconscious bad habits—and their significance within the collective unconscious as a whole.

A lot of the time, we drift through life unaware of the situations we’re experiencing and how to improve not only ourselves but also the world around us. There are so many small, automatic actions we take every day—things that barely register in our minds. One of these struck me recently when I spit out a piece of gum onto the street.

In that moment, I paused to really think about what I was doing. At first, it seemed so minor, something that didn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. But as I stood there I began to notice the countless gum stains embedded in the pavement, each one a mark left behind by someone else who likely thought the same thing. That’s when I realised—this wasn’t just about a single thoughtless act. It was a reflection of how easily we dismiss our own actions, how often we move through life without recognising the impact we leave behind.

There are currently 8 billion people on this planet, many of whom move through life unconsciously, caught in what feels like an "insignificant" reality. We convince ourselves that our small actions don’t matter, that they disappear into the vastness of the world. But the truth is every one of these unconscious choices accumulates—whether it’s littering, neglecting kindness, or failing to take responsibility for our impact.

Instead of becoming stains—mindless marks left behind without thought—we have the power to be something else. We can choose to be conscious, to act with intention, to leave something meaningful behind rather than just traces of carelessness. Every action, no matter how small, is a reflection of who we are. And when we begin to recognise that, we also begin to change—not just ourselves, but the world around us.

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I have an excess of self-awareness, I don't know what to call it, but it's something like an exacerbated individualism that I measure each of my actions in the world, each step, and I often become paralyzed because I can't perceive the benefit that I could generate for life and people - because I want to act only when I see myself benefiting someone. And it's difficult especially when I'm going to express something that is powerful for me, that I desire.

My path has been the opposite. It's been to see that I'm not that important and to give up this attempt to control the benefits of my actions. And the more I let go of this good identity, which wants to be the best in the school of life, the one that will bring uninterrupted benefits to everyone, the more I can act openly to truly benefit life. Not with something that I could foresee as beneficial, but with something lived with presence and awareness that I'm not separate from anything.

Thanks for sharing.

This is essentially a clash between your introverted and extroverted perceptions of life. One part of you searches for meaning in objects, things, and actions, while the other remains completely detached from the grip of dualism.

Carl Jung once spoke about this:

"Even a superficial acquaintance with Eastern thought is sufficient to show that a fundamental difference divides East and West... The Christian West considers man to be wholly dependent upon the grace of God, or at least upon the Church as the exclusive and divinely sanctioned earthly instrument of man's redemption. The East, however, insists that man is the sole cause of his higher development, for it believes in "self- liberation"... I cannot help raising the question of whether it is possible, or indeed advisable, for either to imitate the other's standpoint. The difference between them is so vast that one can see no reasonable possibility of this, much less its advisability. You cannot mix fire and water. The Eastern attitude stultifies the Western, and vice versa. You cannot be a good Christian and redeem yourself, nor can you be a Buddha and worship God."

"I think it is becoming clear from my argument that the two standpoints, however contradictory, each have their psychological justification. Both are one-sided in that they fail to see and take account of those factors which do not fit in with their typical attitude. The one underrates the world of consciousness, the other the world of the One Mind. The result is that, in their extremism, both lose one half of the universe; their life is shut off from total reality, and is apt to become artificial and inhuman. In the West, there is the mania for "objectivity," the asceticism of the scientist or of the stockbroker, who throw away the beauty and universality of life for the sake of the ideal, or not so ideal, goal. In the East, there is the wisdom, peace, detachment, and inertia of a psyche that has returned to its dim origins, having left behind all the sorrow and joy of existence as it is and, presumably, ought to be."

"The West... with its bad habit of wanting to believe on the one hand, and its highly developed scientific and philosophical critique on the other, finds itself in a real dilemma. Either it falls into the trap of faith and swallows concepts like prana, atman, chakra, samadhi, etc., without giving them a thought, or its scientific critique repudiates them one and all as "pure mysticism." The split in the Western mind therefore makes it impossible at the outset for the intentions of yoga to be realized in any adequate way."

This hits home. I’m on a similar journey improving my life in all areas. I’ve have quite some time to reflect on life in hindsight and am fine tuning what I will no longer allow in my life. Interesting how you mention unconscious bad habits too.. I’ve recently been made aware of something I do that was not my intent. Onwards & upwards my friend! Great note!