Yeah, even without the abuse aspect (or spam), the labor of tending to an open group’s needs is far more than most realize. Even a Facebook group that’s not public! Having tended to common spaces online for decades, I breathe such relief at the notion that I can help people find tools to focus and filter without needing to be the one “responsible” for focusing and filtering or explaining once again the guidelines!
Oh, you don’t like unkindness? Here’s the “kind only” filter app. No cuss words for you? Ahhh, you can do that while I still drop occasional Ducks. Quack.