banned by relays one by one in time and still not banned in some, or banned by many relays at the same time. thats the difference i am talking about. when you start sending notes to ban IPs and relays start to listen to those, with so much political powers like you it is a slippery slope 😅
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then use a relay that promises to not ip ban, and watch if fill with spam and die.
Otherwise just use a paid relay or your own.