Same same! Today I’m getting caught up in my to do list instead of actually getting things accomplished. But that’s ok. 💜 you’re definitely not alone! And your posts along bring ppl out of their funks I think 😍
Discussion
It’s like a weird mental hurdle where we are preparing and pondering how best to achieve the tasks and worrying about how difficult they’re gonna be rather than just doing it and feeling better. The better the incentive though, the more likely I will follow through (usually), like because I get the most joy out of making people laugh, that’s all I want to do, but when I’m in these moods, I worry I will just bring others down. 🫂
I know I’m the same with that. I never wanna burden people. Trying to make people laugh and be happy is so much better. I think it’s a good way to be. 🫂
It is, but I wonder if it’s painting an unrealistic picture of life to others. Like you can’t truly know someone if you only see their good traits. 🤷♀️
It’s true and unrealistic. But, I have friends that do nothing but lay their burdens and problems on me every time we talk, and I wouldn’t wanna be them. It’s so exhausting. I’d rather keep it light. However, having real conversations with your friends is great too and can build closer bonds. It’s a tough balance.
Yeah I think balance (as usual) is key. Like if I posted like this everyday, it’s like, “enough, you’re not doing anything to help yourself” and the intent is important too like why am I posting negative content, to just vent and unload on everyone (which is fine in some contexts to a certain extent) or are you looking for a solution to change it? Any solution seeking is fine (to me at least).
You definitely provide the humor for balance. It’s really great that you’re able to also reveal other aspects of your personality, because it’s very relatable for myself and others. Nostr is a wonderful little world of weird and interesting people. It’s cool you’re able to be such a positive influence! Even when you’re not at your best.