But itās not his follows that he is missing (his follows are being saved just fine), is what people post which includes followers.
Discussion
I was chatting with another nostr user today and noticed the only relay we had in common was relay.damus.io. Removing it would make that user ādisappearā, so to speak. I mean, I could broadcast my notes to him (one of my paid relays broadcasts to the Damus one), but I wouldnāt be able to see any of his new notes. Itās a delicate balance