Porn for men and social media for women have distorted the kinds of relationships they expect/want.
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Probably overlap in there if I really try to be accurate.
Certainly downsides to each affect men an women predominantly as you say.
For example, plenty of men have zero social skills because they spend too much time talking as we are here.
Don’t tell me what you don’t want in men or in women. Tell me what you do want in a human being.
Putting aside the fact I didn't say what I don't wan't per se, it was an observation, if I had to consolidate it all down into a simple concept, it would be for people to be connected on a deeper level, not less.
Most interactions today are superficial, and more interactions of a superficial level do not make up for deeper understanding.