I can imagine! I'm really looking forward to that day π«
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Itβs the best. But I would think even more so as the mom. Having carried it. Wish you the best. Just donβt be in a rush. It will happen.
I've lived a thousand lifetimes in my 29 years. Yet I hear you haven't lived until you have children. I'll give my career another year or two before I move on to that chapter.
if you can get 3 kids to school or preschool on time, u can do anything.
the most high respect to the mums and dads - crazy fucksππ€π½
I really suck at age guessing. Perhaps that picture is old, but I would say that is the face of a 24 or 25 year old. A beautiful one at that. I think your plan is a good one.
Respect that. I was young when I had my first child, spent the rest of my life building around his needs above mine and anyone elseβs. Of course I wonder what path I would have chosen or career I would have chased, maybe not having him wouldnβt have gave me the drive early on in my life to strive for a better life. But being able to focus on a career and deciding when to have kids is an amazing choice and I love that for you. π§‘
I guess guys don't really have that choice. Personally I would never do an abortion. Responsible women don't "just get pregnant" Not that hard to take an extra pill with your vitamins. If I did get pregnant I would drop my career in an instant. Says a lot about you that you stuck around π
My respect and admiration for you just keeps growing. Product of good parenting I assume.
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Oh we have a choice. My βdadβ made the opposite. Signed the papers and walked away. Which, made me want to do the Opposite. Had my boy at age 21 and still with her and added a set of twins. Been with her 15 years and made it work. Sure. Been easy to walk away, but thatβs not what real men do. I know not every situation is the same, but Iβll do everything for my boys and make sure Iβm here for them.
I see I showed my age now π π
Only bad part. That day starts the years of worry. That never stops. But worth it. Oh so worth it.