You and you whole family can be on nostr through amethyst and you run a relay its private because you run it and only your family has access. Now you can delete all relays and just keep that private one. Or you can delete most and just leave the private relay and idk a free one. Its not that hard
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Are there clients that let you see messages which only exist on a specific relay? Surely you might read only from a specific relay, but some messages published by others might have been published to many relays.
You can fetch notes just from 1 relay if you want on amethyst. Yes thats true the last part you siad.
I know about that. I was wondering if there was a way to only see notes that were only published to one relay. Notes on one relay might exist on another.
I suppose there is no way to know if notes were only published/broadcast to a single relay, but you could eliminate notes from a feed if the client discovers them on more than one of the relays it's subscribed to.
This is my relay selection. You see the icons. I can click on those and shut them off or turn them on.
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