I've been blessed with a lot of "bro time" over the last several months, and one question that always pops up is how the dating game is going, specifically what guys are looking for in their future wife.

Don't shoot the messenger for passing what I've learned along, to help you lovely folks who've chosen to follow me make the best-informed decisions possible:

By a significant margin, the most rapidly-growing criteria I'm hearing from high-quality men is NO TATTOOS.

Even men with tattoos want women with none, as aside from looking aesthetically trashy, they signify hard life experience (masculine), low impulse-control, bad relationship with father/ex-boyfriends, and lack of care about health/hormones.

(Note that while these things are very important for men looking for a wife/mother of their kids, they are NOT important for men looking for hookups. So, if you're tatted, understand that the percentage of attention you receive from men just wanting to hookup will increase)

If you are a woman with no tattoos or plastic surgery done, give yourself a HUGE pat on the back for dodging these bullets that have tricked so many, and carry yourself with extra confidence knowing that in a hyper-fake world, your natural skin alone puts you in the top 1% in the eyes of the highest-quality men on earth.

https://www.benwehrman.com/tattoo/

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Clean skin.

Clean woman.

Speaking from experience.

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Haven’t read such a bs about tattoos for a long time thx for sharing your thoughts.

you're welcome, here's some more 👇

https://www.benwehrman.com/tattoo/

Thx for sharing even more of that 👊🏼🧡

😂 I don't know what's funnier, the use of "high quality men" or that tattoos are a crippling factor to said "high quality men" being in a relationship.

Boys, grow the fuck up.

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A woman with tattoos signifies a hard life experience (masculine), low impulse-control, bad relationship with father/ex-boyfriends, and lack of care about health/hormones.

Wow 👌 that's spot on Ben. Hits deep bro

All cool with people's opinions and their superficial judgement, but the double standards of tattooed men wanting women without tattoos is beyond me 😂😂😂

men and women by-in-large all regret tattoos later in life; it's consistent across genders

what's different is that men care more about aesthetics in women than vice versa, as well as what those aesthetics represent

some feminine women actually like tatted guys as it can give that "bad boy" vibe (i still don't recommend it for the reasons outlined in my blog post, but i digress)

this occasional female openness toward tatted men is not reciprocated by men seeking women, however. masculine men like their women innocent, natural, and feminine, the opposite of what tattoos project.

https://video.nostr.build/469e61fc658f39ac74f4c6701c26948da60a5f0b62cf49f610e5123d83104084.mp4

Don't put yourself in this situation, ladies 😢

Also, one of the things I learned while writing that tattoo blog post is that if you try to do "tattoo removal", it makes the negative health effects even worse, since it breaks down the heavy metals in the ink into tinier particles that can get lodged into even more of your organs like liver, lymph nodes, etc.

HUGE increased risk of cancer and other diseases later in life, as these heavy metals can cause your internal organs to shut down after enough time. Ticking time bomb.

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