In every relationship; , social, professional - you’re in a feedback loop of moves and countermoves. If you reward disrespect, it increases. If you punish loyalty, it dies. If you stay silent when boundaries are crossed, the equilibrium tilts against you. The game always adjusts to the behavior you tolerate.
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Yup.
I wish I knew then what I know now.
I want a do over. I’d rule the world…
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like hitler you sick fuck 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀
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“The game always adjusts to the behavior you tolerate”
Amen to that
Ethics are key in that sense
Plus the ability to just move on, and focus on what you’re building
yes
train people like a fascist german dog owner
call that das Alpha
das A und O
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Game theory applies in relationships as well.
Regarding boundaries:
Everytime you let your boundaries be crossed, the relationship suffers.
(And sometimes it’s worth it)
They are also bi-sided. Nothing happens only from one side.
Truth… I’m strong on these things professionally but not so in my love interests. Just reached the end of the line with my woman. Stayed silent on boundary crossings and had very little benefit from discussing disrespect so both have increased and intensified. Had to draw the line and close the door after 2 years of being all in.