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Found Bitcoin in 2016, only started to understand it in 2018. I'm here to support it how I can. On Nostr since 2022

If you draw a circle around 2 tits, in a figure 8 form on it's side, you end up with the infinity symbol. And as Satoshi would have surely known on this 21st day of August, this is infinity day!

Happy 8 / 21 day everyone.

Everything in the world divided by 21 million Bitcoins.

Replying to Avatar hodlbod

Bank security practices are so byzantine and broken it's absurd. I spent 45 minutes helping my mom unlock her Chase account today (which was locked because she sent $500 via zelle to a friend who is in the hospital!) Here's how it went:

- Locked for no reason

- Number on website goes to automated answering machine

- It asks for her debit card number (what?) to identify the account

- This is lost and also needs to be replaced. There is no alternative method, 0 doesn't get us to a person

- I call Chase customer service, different number, very similar system, but I am able to get a person on the phone

- They verify her identity by making me hand the phone to my mom and ask her to state her name (what). They also ask for her ssn and a security phrase she doesn't know, although she does manage to share the security phrase for her other bank.

- They re-order the debit card and transfer us to another department, where we do the whole verification charade again

- They send a 2fa code via sms. We receive it, but the site shows an error and won't let us put the code in.

- They then send a different code, and ask me to give it to them over the phone, which the text message explicitly says not to do.

- Despite my better judgment I gave them the number. They then do something on the backend, and I enter a *new* code they gave me over the phone into the web portal to get it unblocked.

It's no wonder old people get scammed! Force someone to deal with this BS for 20 years and anyone would get confused and give the wrong code to the wrong person.

The legacy banking system is dead, people just don't know it yet.

Replying to Avatar Frank

#nostr

The state needs to fear the citizens, not the other way around.

There is no lockdown control freaks don't like.

Looks like they are not happy with how the election is going.

Replying to Avatar BTC Sessions

Moment of vulnerability here, wondering if anyone has had a similar experience before.

I completely LOST it on another person's kid today when I thought they had intentionally hurt my daughter, but I was wrong and now I feel horrible.

Context: on a road trip with another family. The other child has behavioral issues and has been known to get physical in the past with others at school and daycare. Over the course of the trip he's been pretty poorly behaved and aggressive but not downright violent... but I had it in the back of my mind that it could happen.

My daughter was playing with him in the other room, then suddenly runs out screaming, bleeding from the mouth and saying that he had hit her. I've never experienced anyone intentionally hurt my little girl and I instantly flew into protective dad mode before properly assessing the situation. In my mind he had punched her in the mouth.

I stormed into the room and flew into a rage, screaming at the absolute top of my lungs, pointing my finger in the kid's face saying to NEVER touch her EVER again. His mom was right behind me. He was likely terrified and I was honestly way beyond any level of anger I've ever felt.

In the next minute or two my daughter then clarified that it was an accident and they had been playing rough but had unintentionally slammed into each other.

The boy cried, his mom was in shock, and she also had tears in her eyes. I feel absolutely awful about the whole situation, I should have had more self control, and I'm a little in shock how quickly I became an absolute monster to a young kid.

I apologized in the moment to both of them and sent a message after saying I should have handled the situation better.

Just really upset about the whole thing, unsure how to proceed now. Any girl dads out there ever have this happen to them?

Here comes a somewhat controversial view:

You have a paternal responsibility to protect your daughter.

You knew there was a potential for danger.

You allowed children to play, out of your sight.

Something happened to your daughter.

You reacted to something that happened out of your sight.

Think back, at which point did the problem begin?

Lesson to parent: if you don't want to become the asshole who yells, unjustifiably, at an innocent child, then do the hard work and keep your child in view. Or, face the results and take it like a man. Meaning, hebious corpus, innocent until proven guilty. And by the way, children cannot be proven guilty. They are, by definition, children.

(Btw, yes I've been there, no I didn't do any better, yes a wished I could change it)

A seed once planted, takes time to grow. They have tasted nostr, and that matters.

Give it time. When it's right, it will come.

It takes about 5 years for a baby to sleep through the night, on a consistent basis. We miss your amazing videos, but you have important work to do first!

The new phone is only going to last 3 years before it falls to the same fate. Either get something 'good enough', or something different like a Fairphone.

Wow, if the rest of the weekend looks anything like this, your going to be absolutely amazing 🔥💐⭐🎀✨🎉

I'm guessing you've already picked out your outfit?

You have such a talent for enjoying people, and for sharing your love of Bitcoin, and Bitcoiners. We are thrilled that you are willing to be there, and to leave the comforts of your home to do it. That you for allowing us to be a part of your experience!

I have the same feeling. There are enough pieces in place that a strong change is eminent. I do have a tear in my eye for the people who will suffer the change that is coming.