It's not logical someone would take joy in hurting others. Unfortunately narcissists enjoy watching us suffer. It's not right or ok, but it's true with most of them. You do not need people like this in your life. Find people who celebrate you, not your suffering. #grownostr
There’s a big difference between narcissists and assholes IMO. One of the main differences I see is that assholes actually do care about people even though most of the time they try to avoid looking like they do. Narcissists try to pretend they care, but actually don’t.
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Narcissists don't usually give an actual apology. It's always something like, "I'm sorry you feel that way" or something similar. The only possible exception is if it will make them look good to other people. If it doesn't seem sincere, it's probably not. #grownostr
Being in a healthy relationship can feel scary and set off all of our alarms. This is partially because we’re used to the calm before the storm. In healthy relationships there is never the same kind of storm though. It takes time to get used to a new level of peace.
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No matter what anyone says. There is never a any reason for someone to abuse another person no matter what! The only acceptable response is to own what they've done and stop repeating the behavior. Anything less is a continuation of the abuse. This is never ok. #grownostr
Many of us thought we had found the person of our dreams. Instead we learned that our survival depended on us learning about narcissists and how to survive these relationships. Allow yourself to forgive yourself for not seeing it until you did. It was still real for you. #grownostr
Narcissists literally use exhaustion as a tactic to control and manipulate you. The more exhausted you are the harder it is to think clearly which keeps you off balance and in their control.
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They may not be directly abusive. They could simply be neglectful and unavailable. It doesn't even necessarily mean they are a narcissist. It also doesn't mean that it's not abuse. Neglect is abuse. It's still harmful, it just looks different than other abuse. #grownostr
Sometimes the only thing we can do is to move forward one small step at a time. Letting go of people we care about, who should or could be supporting us is a horrible thing to go through. Many times there is simply nothing we can do to change their mind. The choice is to stay stuck where we are, or move forward even if it’s small steps.
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Narcissists create drama and use our reactions against us. Being OK is often survival of these relationships. After getting out, it's important to begin acknowledging the way we actually feel to ourselves and those we trust. This allows us to process and release these emotions. #grownostr
The sooner we accept that narcissists are the way they are, the sooner we can actually focus on what matters. Moving forward with our lives and focusing on ourselves and the people who truly matter. Not accepting this keeps us stuck and that’s what they want.
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The good news about taking this masterclass is after you've done the work of healing you may never need to take this class again. If you do, the chances are it will be a much shorter class than the first time and you'll heal much quicker with less effort. This, unfortunately, is the only good news about this class. #grownostr
The chaos we learn to live with in narcissistic relationships is not easy to undo. It takes a lot of work to be able to accept and embrace the peace that we actually want. In many subtle ways we end up creating our own chaos because the peace is dysregulating.
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Narcissists act and treat us like anything we ask for is too much. Just because they are unable or unwilling to give to us doesn't mean we need to settle for it. Never settle for someone who is unwilling to reciprocate the love, effort and support you give them. You deserve more! #grownostr
A glimmer of hope is the best you’ll ever get out of a relationship with a narcissist. Things may be a little less or more bad, but never get better. Don’t future fake yourself into staying for longer than you absolutely have to.
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It's not easy to learn to set boundaries for yourself, especially after someone has walked on, abused and broken every one you had. It is something that's possible for all of us to learn. Be kind to you in this process. Every single boundary you work on is a step forward. #grownostr
Happy Mother’s Day! Try not to let the narcissists in your life get to you. And if they do, be kind and compassionate with yourself. It’s not selfish to do something for yourself and take care of you or anyone else you want to.
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Our mental health is so important. Often it's hard to know what to do for ourselves. What to do is much less important than simply doing it. Even if it seems like it's nothing. Take the time to go get away. Any time is better than none. Sometimes nothing is what you need to do. #grownostr
Boundaries are healthy no matter what narcissists say. They expect you to have none and not ever push theirs. Building and holding healthy boundaries is one of the fastest ways to eliminate the narcissists from your life. This isn’t easy, but it’s possible for everyone.
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Narcissists want attention. That's one reason they cause chaos. It's the easiest way to get attention. Depending on what they think will get them the most attention, they will talk about being the best, or the best victim. It all comes down to attention. Either way they're better, according to them anyway. #grownostr