Narcissists are stuck and they want to keep you there too. They don’t want you moving forward or changing anything unless it benefits them. They simply want more from you while also only having you in their life when they need you. It sounds harsh because it is. Move forward with your life anyway. Don’t wait for them. They won’t go with you, they’ll only take from you.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
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In narcissistic relationships we are often shamed and judged for simply asking for common decency. Just to be kind to each other. This is never an unreasonable request and it's something everyone deserves in all relationships. You don't have to settle for less! #grownostr

Narcissists gain great pleasure from witnessing the suffering of others. Your pain, which should evoke empathy and compassion in a healthy relationship, instead becomes a source of satisfaction for them. It's a sick game with them. It takes work to get out, but we don't have to play their game!
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
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Whether it's narcissists, toxic people or anyone else. We can't save or love them enough for them to be healthy. It's something they must do for themselves. There are no exceptions to this. We all must do the work ourselves in order to heal. Focus on yourself and do the work to heal and allow them to do it or not. Your life will get better either way and they will come with you or you will find healthier people to be with. It's not easy, but it's better than going backwards.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Love within a narcissistic relationship becomes a battleground where the victim fights for recognition, respect, and affection, while losing themselves in the process. We give all our love to them and none is ever returned. It's always a losing battle. #grownostr

The chances are, they didn't change and they won't ever. The real question is would you really want to go back to someone who treated you the way they did? Especially if they never even made amends in the first place. It's not worth the effort to try to trust someone again that hasn't made the effort to actually be trust worthy. #grownostr

Narcissists will give the excuse of past abuse or a hard childhood as a justification for mistreating others. No matter what you've gone through, it's never an excuse to mistreat someone else. We all have the ability to choose how we treat everyone else! #grownostr

The fake love narcissists give has one purpose, to control you. They give and hold back their "love" from you in order to manipulate and control you. They don't actually love or care about you. They only care about controlling you. It's time to cut the strings and live your life!
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Everything narcissists do is a distraction in order to control us. They don't want us to be able to think clearly or have time to ourselves. This might allow us to have time and space for clear thinking, which could allow us to see beyond their illusion. The distraction is to keep us overwhelmed so we never see who they truly are.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Not much to say other than I just needed a day to go do the things I love. Still got my camera out and got a couple things, but mostly just had a great day and focused on other things. We all need these days! #grownostr
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The relentless onslaught of criticism, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation inflicted by a narcissist gradually chips away at your self-esteem, leaving you shattered and diminished. Allow yourself all the time you need to heal from this. No one else knows your experience.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Being busy is only helpful until it's not. Many times being busy is not helpful in healing. We end up suppressing emotions that need to come out. It's important to process them, but many times letting them out is helpful in and of itself. Allowing them out is part of healing.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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I'm sorry. I messed up and I'm sure I will again. Not because I want to, but because I'm human. I'll own it every time though. I said something in a video that wasn't as clear as what I would like it to have been and someone commented on it and asked me about it. Hopefully this clears it up for anyone who was unclear on it.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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I do not recommend going to counseling with a narcissist ever if you can avoid it. It doesn't ever go well and usually causes more harm to you and the relationship. If the counselor figures out they're a narcissist, they won't go back and may retaliate against you. If they don't, the narcissist will use the counselor against you to abuse and manipulate you. Definitely get help and support, but don't go with them if you can avoid it.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take your life back and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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There's always going to hell to pay in toxic relations, it's only when and how it happens. We end up not wanting to talk about anything to anyone. It's better to not talk to narcissists, but we need other people to see and hear us. Find these people and allow them to support you. Even a little time with other people helps a lot even if it's uncomfortable at first.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Some days just feel like a disaster even when they’re actually not. This is normal even though it usually doesn’t feel like it. It’s just our mind trying to protect us. Take a moment to reflect if everything is actually ok, take a deep breath and give yourself a hug. It will pass and we can then move on with our day.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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What can I say. 🤣 https://m.primal.net/POuL.mp4
They can try and they may even succeed for a time. Ultimately, their lies are not your truth. Search for the people who will help you see yourself and your truth. They are out there and they are ready and willing to help you through this journey. Keep going! You are worth it!!! #grownostr

Narcissists just want to get in our heads in order to control us. They’ll use all kinds of excuses and reasons to try to do it that sound justified. Just because they can justify a good reason to talk doesn’t mean they’re not just trying to get in your head. Don’t believe their lies!
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
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Narcissists don't think anything they do is wrong. They live in an illusion that they are perfect and everyone else is the problem. It's a false illusion, but they still reject everything that doesn't reinforce it to them. Let them live in their illusion and focus on your life.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is inevitable when you have the right tools and support. Personal empowerment is the way. This is what I do. I coach and teach you how to take and build the life you want. To never be beholden to anyone again including our own thoughts.
Dm me or schedule a consultation through the link in my bio.
#awareness #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #personalempowerment #grownostr #personalempowermentcoach
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