sending somidarity from spadina

I'm of the position that the language "You are responsible for anything that has ever happened to you" can easily be misinterpreted as "You are responsible for the actions done to you by others."

It is in fact a very common phenomenon that victims of abuse blame themselves. Women who were raped blame themselves they're taking extreme ownership the do infact believe they where responsible for it.

On the flip side, abusers by giving the victim extreme ownership do not actually take ownership for being an abuser as the victim did it to themselves.

What I am saying is there are victims in this world, but they do not have to identify as a victim. If I was hit by a drunk driver I was victimized in that moment but I do not have to make my personality that of a victim.

But in using the example of extreme ownership without nuance. That baby is responsible for itself, not me.

And so in this world there are circumstances and systems that have given people as unequal rights as a baby left on a doorstep of a person who is not going to care for it.

There are plenty of people that play the victim, especially in middle class America.

However, making a blanket statement like this is like claiming history does not exist.

I've read books that describe overseers who forced boys to suck their dicks nearly every morning to start the day.

But of course those boys were responsible, in the same way the boys that get raped by priests are responsible.

And by that logic if there are no victims and everyone is responsible for what happens to them then there are no perpetrators of crime are there? Those children let it happen, they where asking for it to be done.

Again plenty of people play victim or allow themselves to feel like victims in circumstances they could in fact change or not let happen in the first place.

But to say there are no victims is quite a historically illiterate statement.

Damus mutes long kind1 post, it's pretty annoying tbh.

just watched a hottie park like this

bang her jeep door on the Toyota

& then climb out the passenger door

… WTF!

Make sure you don’t have japanese as a preferred language is iOS. It won’t translate preferred languages

With Purple you should have been prompted to set up translations…did you not get that?

Thinking leg day was a breeze until I got up and boy these legs are weak af right now

zap script works again on the latest damus testflight build

allegedly

Ooo what’s this game? 🤓

Thanks for also being on nostr. Was really painful to follow you on twitter (via nitter, as I do not have nor want a twitter account)

Too many struggle and/or do not know who they are internally. Lack of resources or time to even consider "who" they are is one reason. Many have been brainwashed to believe various narratives, etc.

Love is what makes humanity unique. Compassion for others and how to best assist one anothet to live & succeed * should * be normal.

Everyone deserves love and respect & seeks it in various ways. I'm only online to support others. 🥰💜🫂 Does that answer?

GN frenss

Titty art! 🤗🖼😈😛

#NSFW #boobstr #nipstr #artstr #photography #onyx #vixen #tittytuesday

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finally in terms anybody can understand

I hope for a place one day sooner than later. Speaking about these things will push us closer toward that better place. 🙏🫂

Been driving around in a ridiculous yellow car in search of the best pastry in town that doesn’t have a line that ends at the bottom of the Seine.

Shill me some running shoes 👟

The next testflight after the next appstore release will be purple only! Purple members will have access to newer features early and this will help get around the 10,000 testflight user limit issue.

Non members will still have access to all the latest features each appstore release 🤙

No true Bitcoiner sells Bitcoin ever

Man if I could get fresh coconut water like I was drinking two weeks ago in Costa Rica I would. That stuff was so damn good.

I will add some cinnamon to my tea, it already has honey.

people buy bitcoin because they want to make $$ dollars. if they couldn't exchange it for $$ dollars they wouldn't give AF about it.

Good morning 🥱☕️☕️☕️