hence otter dynasty
which got me to thinking
on a day with nothing to do
fun to muse about a game of thrones remake with dogs
made me think of g.o.t & get really upset cos fuck that tv series truly in a lot of ways as a personal opinion way way way too violent & sadistic
but simply even smelling them
& my brain saying they reek cos i wear them so much & get up to all sorts of shit
that is how much i love these shirts
which is a bummer but not the hugest deal cos gotta be without them for the duration of a wash which is on already
cos the only unideal part of wearing both of jack's shirts at the same time is after getting out of the bath & cleaning up i noticed they both reek at the same time
anyway, i thought of it cos was musing re: game of thrones nostr:note16w94czyny98shnu8vqu5v7mtxc6z9tpr78xlelpyslv4qr83p8nqphvcmu
imagine fucking up free advertising nostr:note1lv9fg8mwhgrcgcc3z5znhyk0z6s73ywvyjfz7gdaf7af5jlh8jqqppyq5a
has anyone ever seen otter dynasty?
i would share a trailer but all seems to be struck down 
dont ever marry for anything other than love
what family would be pissed about 20k to call off a wedding?
made out like bandits
wise choices
not embarrassing to anyone
smart
if both of them are like
lol
easiest choice of my life
im getting married duh!!!!?!!!
then every blessing there very ever was
we could have a world where the night before every wedding? a stranger simply appears
& privately speaks to the bride to be
even a letter doesnt even need to be a person
here is 10k to walk away
or
do you truly want this?
same for the groom
you simply have to trust daughters, sisters, aunties, mothers, grandmothers
single mothers
on this one
there is no inadequacy
& you will never be able to step into having that
as an embodied experience that is real & true & actual
until you dismantle the poisonous incentives put in place for over 2000 years
if you took all pressure off women
if you stopped trying to force their hand
you would come to find you are more worthy than your very own heart can probably bear to take
all the patriarchy is
is a constellation of poisonous incentives to force women to make wrong choices
at the cost if themselves cos men find themselves inadequate
center single mothers in policy decisions
treat them as sacred as holy as white buffalo
do not harass them
just leave offerings & back away
the very moment this is done
this country will be such a healthier place standing on much much better chances for all children, all women, all men, & love & family