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I'm learning and am mostly commenting to follow this thread.

What I do know is that any app that asks you to verify your identity (KYC) will have records of your transactions, so Bitcoin exchange over cashapp is no more private than accepting dollars over cashapp.

All legal custodial wallets in the US must comply to KYC regulations, so that narrows the options for complete privacy.

What I would like to know is the best non-KYC wallet accessible in the US currently, or how to exchange self-custody funds privately (without using an exchange medium like cashapp or coinbase etc that are kyc)?

Wooooow this is so real 😍 nostr:note1j6dlcjxfrerukqj560397e5f9jauvs4ld203rwhej9z2hkadm95ss0cqde

Learning from things, and from Rilke, the magnificent splendor of a fall

#autumn #proofofwalk

Learned how to make some fun things with brioche dough and local ingredients, yum! From top left clockwise:

- Doughnut with fig leaf sugar and filled with a fig leaf custard

- Doughnut with a tulsi glaze decorated with calendula and anise blossoms

- Maritozzi bun with spiced plums and vanilla whipped cream

- Tart with apple butter and sugared pears sprinkled with thyme

And Cardamom buns

#foodstr

Perfect. Thanks yes that's the one I was looking for. Much appreciated!

#asknostr

What's the most private AI Chat program?

I recall seeing alternatives to ChatGPT posted before... and have since lost my bookmarks :(

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Moment of vulnerability here, wondering if anyone has had a similar experience before.

I completely LOST it on another person's kid today when I thought they had intentionally hurt my daughter, but I was wrong and now I feel horrible.

Context: on a road trip with another family. The other child has behavioral issues and has been known to get physical in the past with others at school and daycare. Over the course of the trip he's been pretty poorly behaved and aggressive but not downright violent... but I had it in the back of my mind that it could happen.

My daughter was playing with him in the other room, then suddenly runs out screaming, bleeding from the mouth and saying that he had hit her. I've never experienced anyone intentionally hurt my little girl and I instantly flew into protective dad mode before properly assessing the situation. In my mind he had punched her in the mouth.

I stormed into the room and flew into a rage, screaming at the absolute top of my lungs, pointing my finger in the kid's face saying to NEVER touch her EVER again. His mom was right behind me. He was likely terrified and I was honestly way beyond any level of anger I've ever felt.

In the next minute or two my daughter then clarified that it was an accident and they had been playing rough but had unintentionally slammed into each other.

The boy cried, his mom was in shock, and she also had tears in her eyes. I feel absolutely awful about the whole situation, I should have had more self control, and I'm a little in shock how quickly I became an absolute monster to a young kid.

I apologized in the moment to both of them and sent a message after saying I should have handled the situation better.

Just really upset about the whole thing, unsure how to proceed now. Any girl dads out there ever have this happen to them?

Dude, everyone who has spent any time with kids has definitely had a moment they are not proud of. Kids will challenge everything you thought you knew about life including your own ability to keep cool under stress. My thoughts on the matter, since others have already told you not to be too hard on yourself, are some tangible actions you can take:

1. Unlearn that response and replace it with something else.

Unlearn that rage response and spend time learning responses that you feel more proud of and that fit more with the person and dad you want to be.

If that was how you were spoken to as a kid or how someone "taught" you how to behave when you were young, you might need to do some work around this. Get support- there's a lot of great stuff out there (therapy, dads groups, etc).

2. Your daughter deserves an apology too.

Not to pile onto your bad feelings, but please consider your daughter in that moment too... she was looking to you for calm and comfort to help her with her stressful situation and then you became enraged and raised the stress level. Whether yelling at the boy was justified or not isn't even the issue in her case; when you became overwhelmed with your own emotions before being curious about or consoling to hers, it amounts to you shutting her down and ignoring her when she asked for help. Not to mention you becoming a danger to her friend and how scary that might have been for her. She had to shut down her feelings in order to explain to you that it was an accident and get you to calm down. All that to say, you might consider apologizing to her and talking through the situation and your mistakes with her too.

For all the fathers of daughters who commented: your daughter will stop telling you things and stop coming to you for help if she can't trust your response to be helpful. Practice now so she'll come to you for more serious situations when she's older.

3. You're doing fucking fantastic.

Your awareness and questioning means you're on the right track. Keep asking! Keep growing and learning and you'll stay a good enough dad and have a great relationship with your kid into adulthood.

Plum season smells so good... Shiro plums have the most magnificent golden color up in the tree. Pretty nice here too

#gardenstr #foodstr

Uncommunicated expectations are often unconscious desires. Resentments are opportunities to learn.

Cool, I saw on their website that the alby team does not give out invites. Instead they suggest asking for one here. Soooo, anyone want to send me an Alby invite? 😬

#getAlby

Anyone know what I can do to attach a wallet? I don't have an invite code to Alby and when I try attach wallet option I get this error. Ideas?

#asknostr