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From Finland, slowly becoming a bitcoin maxi with all the scams going around. I love DnD, tanks, video games and spiced rum.

Very true. Life is too short to listen to negativity 😁 however I like having one or two downers in my social media, just to give contrast and perspective. Makes the positive people feel so much better 😂

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There’s a BIG difference in a guy politely approaching a woman and a creepy way to do it.

Like intensely staring at a woman (this happens to me often and makes me very uncomfortable), being obvious about checking out her body or making comments about her body is the WRONG approach.

You can tell a woman she’s pretty or beautiful but not comment on her body or body part. And definitely NEVER touch a stranger woman’s body parts without her permission/consent!

Most girls are taught to be polite so prob won’t do anything, but I have and will definitely hit a guy if that happens.

Buying or sending a woman a 🍷🍸🍹drink is a way to signal interest in USA by men but that prob varies in countries/culture.

Do Finnish guys do that?

But lot of girls are happy to accept free drinks, so it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s interested in guy who bought it for her.

There’s no need to come up with a cheesy line in attempting to hit on a woman, just be sincere. If she’s interested — usually it’s about physical attraction & cues at first — she’ll respond.

If a guy can make a girl laugh, that scores MAJOR points!

Personally, I’ve spoken to random guys if they seem interesting or if I like what they’re wearing, curious about a book they were reading or simply in a chatty mood and like their vibe/energy. It def does NOT mean I’m interested in dating them cuz I do that with women as well; it’s a people thing.

Oh and girls are very sensitive to scents. So I definitely notice when a guy (or person) smells good or if he’s stinky. Personal hygiene, taking showers/baths regularly and using deordant is very imporant!

And I do think phermones is a valid thing. Everyone has a natural scent and if a girl doesn’t like a guy’s natural body scent, he’s not getting anywhere with her. They’ve done studies about phermones re attraction.

So if the guy had bought you the toasted coconut coffee instead of talking about it, he would have seemed less of a weirdo?

Over here guys sometimes try to buy women drinks but it is often seen as a bad thing too. Women here want to be financially equal to men and want to buy their own drinks. I have found it's easier just starting conversations about innocent subjects and see where it leads. If there is chemistry, great. If not, at least you didn't sound like a creep. Tho I do understand it may be odd if someone starts talking about a coffee three times, maybe he is just hoping the conversation would develop to other topics aswell

Just curious, if being a creep is the wrong way to approach a woman, and also making normal conversation is also the wrong way, what would you say is the actual proper way for a regular guy to appeoach girls? We all know women rarely approach men (for good reasons) so I just wonder how things would work out for humans in general if men just stopped striking conversation? I think we would all be extinct in few ten years 😂

I'm sure things will work out. She is eager to move to her own apartment anyway, and I feel like us moving to the country side will probably increse that need as all her friends are in the city. She will obviously need a lot of support with that, with all the anxiety going on with her, but I think it will work wonders for her mental fortitude.

True. I just wish she would grow up a bit xD (she turns 18 this month)

Woke up to the sweet sound of family teenager having a meltdown.

Sometimes it's hard to imagine this is the person I'd have to rely on when I'm old and can't do shit anymore.

Think I will invest a bit on bitcoin today so I can hire someone else too, just incase.

Just spent a weekend with my dnd group at a rented cabin. We had lots of booze, a hot tub, sauna and of course great time playing together.

Stuff like this is a great way to gain more confidence to role play better in dnd, even tho I now have a horrible hangover 😂

I used godaddy dot com. No idea if it's the best platform for that, but seemed to work 😅

I just got my new e-mail stuff set up. I moved to protonmail for better end to end encryption, bought my own domain and combined all that with simplelogin services. Now I control where the spam goes to and if it ever even arrives. Also encryption is better.

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It's one of those days again where it seems no matter what I will say, people will take it the most negative way and act aggressively. Chill out, guys... It's only Tuesday. Jeez...

Technically not true, as more bitcoin is being made until it reaches the maximum amount... But I would still put those everywhere 😁😁

I'm confident that CBDCs themselves will push even the most common sheep to find greener pastures. Bitcoin will be the most obvious choice

I agree. To me getting engaged was a promise of getting married. Also didn't want to wait too long for the wedding, so we just made it happen the next summer. Not a lot of people think this way tho... Getting engaged seems to be a promise of a serious relationship to a lot of people, which in my books means really nothing. Trust doesn't come with a piece of metal, after all 😁

They can definately tax that. Here in Finland they have started to put taxes on rain that goes into sewers. Ridiculous.

I think getting engaged is okay, from what I've seen it isn't as serious of a thing as it used to be. There is literally no consequences from breaking up after getting engaged. I would agree tho, give it time before getting married or making kids. Chances are shit is gonna hit the fan, as relationships require some serious people skills and the only way to gain those is to make mistakes. Live and learn 😁

Yeah she likes it. About ten years ago she had a mohawk too (didn't know her back then, so never saw it) so she understands 😂

I once considered a long hair but my scalp can't handle that, my head would just dry up and I'd scratch my skin off 😂😂

Oh and yes, we are both finnish.