I also use Damus on iOS and can zap. You might need the testFlight version to zap. No problems, thanks to nostr:npub1xtscya34g58tk0z605fvr788k263gsu6cy9x0mhnm87echrgufzsevkk5s and his team.
It is hard for people to make that transition, like going on a diet when they have been fed junk food for all of their life.
I agree, it is much slower on nostr because that is reality. More isn't always better. You sound like a fat person complaining that the restaurant isn't all you can eat. π
Organic networks take longer to build but are much stronger than the sugar coated algorithms of Twitter & Facebook. I would challenge, is what you are seeing on Twitter really popular or is it being pushed onto you through manipulative algorithms. Watch out for becoming the NPC. #psyop
Actually I was hoping you would respond with a wear vs where and/or due vs do meme. π
Youβre welcome π«‘
nostr:npub1dgpt04w4c88wc0g262xaw8zvlm4mvwtmjhl0tn2sxtyjywsn6q4qt8ka3a our Grammar Chef π 
Wear due you find these excellent memes?
So what are you saying?
a) I still need to wait before my AI girlfriend can get a robotic body?
b) My AI girlfriend can get a really girl's body through cyborg upgrades?
Gentlemen, it is time to choose your poison. Do you choose death by snu snu...
a) arms
b) legs
I know it's a hard choice and you can't pick both, so many good ways for a man to die. 
Tough enough to endure it is becoming a minority. π’
The problem is that he was using a welder to cut wood. Everyone knows that if you do that, you will eventually transform into Elton John's Rocket Man.
The guy is smiling! π