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You've been lucky, then. Not everyone tags / CWs such contents.

But this is mostly a subpost of a conversation in another thread where someone was angered about a client that filtered some post from its 'trending' list.

If we want to see numeric growth in the network, some client will have to become "normal person friendly" and default to filtering. It won't have to be on by default in all clients. Just one or two that people new to Nostr can start out using.

Case in point: I was in a Matrix room. Someone came in and started posting extremely gross images. I left that room and have not returned. In that case, the client I used lacks filtering & blocking options, so other than closing the client until enough time had passed to attract administrators to kill the offending account, leaving the room entirely was my only option.

If leaving the room had not been an option, I would have deleted my account and the client software.

Yeah, normal people don't want to accidentally see NSFW content, because they could happen at inopportune moments. Client filters help, but only if people know how to use them, and many people won't bother learning ... they'll just abandon Nostr entirely.

I'm not sure what the answer is, but it only takes 2-3 times of being surprised by such content before people start to question the value of the network.

Every time I look in the mirror, I keep wondering how I became an old man when I still feel younger than my oldest son.

I hoped for that, but did not expect it.

When I read about Alameda Research having a secret way to grab FTX customers' funds for its own uses (risky investments), there wasn't really any other reasonable conclusion.

> ActivityPub dislikes us

AP is just a protocol. But, yeah, many #ActivityPub #Fediverse users and admins dislike any other decentralized protocol, because they feel that AP has sufficient penetration that everyone should just extend AP instead of reinventing the wheel.

Famously articulated by Evan, who originated both AP and its predecessor #OStatus.

For the record, this idea is dead wrong. With multiprotocol servers & clients and with bridges, people don't have to care which decentralized protocol someone else uses, and thus #Nostr, AP, OStatus, #Diaspora, ATProto, etc are no longer competitors but allies in the quest to take down the corpocentric (centralized, corporate controlled) networks.

Don't forget the overall goal. We get focused on competing with other decentralized networks when our task is to spread #DecentraLife and deflate #corpocentric networks.

#YaCy is a good idea, but its results are poor. I hosted a couple of peers to try to get better info in its index, but after a year or two of crawling and indexing sites relevant to my topic, real results were generally buried under pages of garbage results.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D-plbWl8u2I and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3pBqq2vlJo

A social media influencer's giveaway announcement caused chaos in New York City yesterday.

I don't have any Mac experience, but I shudder at the idea of recommending someone entangle themselves with Oracle (owner of VirtualBox).

> Are you going to try Threads?

No. When I left the Facebook prison, I vowed to never return. All these years later, I still haven't joined any MetaFaceBook service, and I do not intend to do so.

Replying to Avatar Derek Ross

I haven't done a #grownostr post in a while. Let's talk about my love for #golf

I come from a golfing family, mostly on my mother's side. My grandparents played, my uncles and aunts all played, my cousins played, my parents played a little, and I played. My grandfather and my uncles were the ones winning all of the local tournaments, so I had big shoes to fill coming from a golfing family.

My grandfather, the patriarch of our golfing family, got me into golfing at the age of 10. Well, at least he tried. He took me to the range to hit some balls. At the end of the night, as it was getting dark, he said he would go out and hit all of the balls back so that I could hit them one more time before we headed home. He ended up hitting my with a golf ball. It was probably my fault for not paying attention 😆 I didn't play again for 2 years.

Now at age 12, it was time for me to live and breathe golf. I played 18-27 holes a day in the summer. My mother dropped me off at 8:30am on her way to work, I met my cousin and sometimes a friend or two, and we played golf all day until we got picked up at 5pm after our parents got off of work.

When I turned 16 and could drive, I was doing essentially the same thing. I would drive myself to the course and play all day, then hangout with friends in the evening.

I played and won various tournaments as a teenager. My cousin and I were best friends, but always highly competitive with one another on the golf course. We played together and against one another often.

In college, I rarely played golf, focusing my time on other things (not school work).

After college though, I joined my family's league team and was able to find the time to play once a week and a couple league or family tournaments a year. It was truly a wonderful time, being a young adult, playing golf with my cousin, uncles, and grandfather on weekly basis. It was great bonding time all around a sport that we loved. I will always cherish these good times and amazing memories we had together.

Our grandfather invited my cousin and I to The Master's down in Augusta, Georgia one year and wow, that was a hell of an experience. Actually, I think that was Katie and I's one year dating anniversary week. Oops.

Throughout my 20's and 30's I played a couple times a month and maybe one or two tournaments a summer. It was hard to find time to play now that I was married had a family. I don't know how my family did that when they were my age.

I haven't played golf for 3 years. I hurt my back playing in May of 2020. I wanted to heal up and take time off, hopefully to play again. Last summer I had surgery and was unable to play. I could probably play this summer if I tried. Maybe I'll go hit some balls some evening.

I still have the golf clubs that my grandfather custom made for me when I was 18. They are Ping Eye 2 clones called Tour Model 2. They shafts in the mare stiffer and men's stiff flex and the shafts are one inch longer than regular men's length. I could probably use a technology upgrade at some point if I ever decided to play again, but I just can't see myself playing golf with any other club. My grandfather passed away back in 2009. To me, the clubs are part of his legacy.

Even if I don't play now, I have friends that are getting more into the game and look for me often for teaching or lessons. I know a lot about the game and swing mechanics, having my grandfather in my ear most of my life, always teaching. I love to help my friends and talk about golf, even though I don't play right now.

Oh, I almost forgot! I worked at the local country club for several years in my late teens and early twenties. I worked inside the pro-shop and I also worked out on the grounds, mowing greens and tees, as well as doing tons of other manual labor. The pro-shop work was easier, but the greens work was more fun.

Do you play golf?

I never have.

When I was in high school, our school got putters and these plastic whiffle balls the size of golf balls and decided that boys PE would be golf for about six weeks. A couple of my friends figured out how to knock the whiffle balls up onto the roof of the gym and soon there weren't enough left for us to continue.

I don't use #Digg / #Reddit type sites, but from my understanding, #Lemmy sites' (which are #Fediverse Reddit type sites) major issues are based around moderation ... and because the main developers and hosts of the biggest instance are marxist-leninist "tankies".

And again, I've never used it, so I only know what I've been told.

Hamstr should offer the option of "visible mode", where there's a lighter theme.

hamstr.to seems to lack blocking and curation features.

If you're spamming, you're scamming.

It is still true: if you're spamming, you're scamming.

1. User-controlled filtering. If you visit the "public timeline" when you're using popular zero-price relays, there's a lot more spam (and porn) than there is actual content. But also, I've come across some really racist & sexist posters.

The ability to quickly and easily filter out most of that would be an amazing improvement.

2. Desktop clients (not using Electron or similar browser-based stuff). Not "grab Rust and Cargo and then type in this incantation" stuff either. Something available in repos like Chocolatey or Debian/Ubuntu would be preferred, but even download on GitHub/sourceforge and unzip to run would be okay.

3. Less hostile to those who are not Bitcoin-only. Some of the people I interact with outside of Nostr are Ethereum users and some are non-crypto folks who fell for "boiling the oceans" propaganda.

4. The mobile clients Damus and Amethyst seem to be polished up fairly well now. They could still use some work before they're ready for the world.

5. More bridges to other decentralized networks. Even if it doesn't seem like it, we're not really fighting one another. We're fighting the big centralized networks, the smaller centralized networks whose architectures don't prevent any of the issues the big networks have, and the public's tendency to believe that the only way to be seen and connected is to use Facebook/Twitter/Instagram etc. If using Nostr means you're also connected to users of $DECENTRALIZED_NETWORK, then we're all pulling together to pry people out of centralized corporate network prisons.

Mostr (bridge to the Fediverse) is a good start, but given the size of the networks, there should be multiple such bridges.

6. Others have noted that easier discovery is needed. I agree.