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Actually, he knew and *STILL* knows and friends with VERY IMPORTANT & SIGNIFICANT to the art AND literary world people who are part of history.

Listening to Taylor Swift’s excellent new album, THE TORTURED POETS DEPARTMENT. 🔂

Interesting. My UK BFF & Kindred Spirit has given me a book by 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿Dylan Thomas, think when he and his lovely girlfriend took me to 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿Tenby during my visit during SOLO holiday trip.

And an Artist/Writer/Musician friend of my brilliant and beautiful Artist & Musician guy friend is friends with Patti Smith and knows many people who lived at the Chelsea Hotel in NYC.

Think he may have lived there (we haven’t met yet but he has a Wikipedia page) — I can’t quite recall if he lived there or just visited often — but he definitely knew people who are part of history and who are VERY IMPORTANT & significant to the art world.

He knew a woman who knew Basquiat. I’m not familiar with her and my guy friend told me she died of heroin OD maybe?

I can’t recall her name and never looked her up, but I’m assuming she most likely has a Wikipedia page.

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NO, he’s not getting any action!

So true! I learned that lesson with my 1st bf and that REAL change has to come from *internally* and can *ONLY* be made by the person.

So many girls do not learn that til too late and waste their time trying to change boys!

I like FULLY *GROWN-UP* and *MATURE* Men cuz a ManChild is a total waste of my time and energy!

Especially as a creative/artsy person!

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Here, have some 🥦🫛🥕🥒

And a good song from the other band I recommended before:

🇰🇷LØREN - “ALL MY FRIENDS ARE TURNING BLUE”

https://youtu.be/d2z5nYjmnrE?feature=shared

Per your post before, here’s a band that sounds a bit like Drew Barrymore’s ex’s band!

And it’s a girl band and they’re *NOT* dressed like tacky trashy sluts who are so obviously using their sexuality, so I consider that to be a major PLUS!

I’m sure they’re also a LOT more PROFESSIONAL when they’re playing shows!

🇨🇦The Beaches — “Blame Brett”

https://youtu.be/h2kUX_Fmj7k?feature=shared

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I was never a loner. I always liked talking to people. I always had friends. My phone was always filled with calls and messages. But now, things have changed. I don't know what exactly has happened. But now, I hardly call people. I hardly do chit chat. I almost never send those forwarded jokes. Have I matured? Have I gone into hiding? Have I become an introvert? I don't know. But I have certainly found my peace in this change. I get more time for myself now. I don't need people to keep me busy. I don't even get bored. I like being with myself. I have realized that I used to waste too much of my time on people. Not all, but many of them were just timepass bonds. They needed me at that point, and maybe, even I needed them. But there was nothing deep about us. Maybe we both found validation in each other. Maybe, we were just talking regularly to convince ourselves that we have friends around us. I know that's a cynical look back at the past. But looking at how I am still very comfortable in my life without so many conversations and people, I guess there was something not so pure about those past equations.

Yes, another important thing is that all of us have grown busy in our lives and we hardly get time for the calls and texts. But that's a half honest argument as when you really want to make time, you do make that time somehow. So maybe, we all have realized that being alone is not that bad. There is peace in reflecting on things on our own, without daily gossips and talks. Maybe, we all reach a stage in life when we get more comfortable with solitude. Our souls grow deeper. Our heart starts to understand emotions better. Maybe, that's life seeping in deep within us, whispering that now you are living it more, more intimately. So yes, I don't talk more now. But I am happy. And I hope now you know why I hardly call you up. It's not about you. It's not your fault. It's just me experiencing life in its new shade, the darker, calmer shade.

Fyi, There is a *BIG* difference in Solitude and Loneliness!

A person can be surrounded by “friends” and lots of people, be married and STILL feel VERY lonely!

Just because a person has a romantic partner doesn’t mean they are happy and feel loved and have companionship.

Also, just cuz 2 people share physical space, be together physically and share many things in their lives doesn’t necessarily mean they are connected.

There are MANY marriages where one or both partners feel VERY lonely!

They should get divorced but won’t cuz of the kids.

That’s a BIG mistake! Little kids can sense when the love is gone between their parents and their dysfunctional relationship will end up causing THEM more damage as they grow up and in the kid’ romantic life!

I enjoy my solitude and would call myself a loner sometime.

It’s the people who have to be *constantly* surrounded by other people who are the people to be cautious of cuz it means they are *NOT* comfortable with who they are as people, *NOT* comfy in their skin or thoughts and constantly seeking external validation!

I no longer enjoy hanging out with those kinds of people and find them draining!

Much happier not having to be their unpaid Therapist and being their sounding board!

I would not agree with!

Some people are Old Souls. I’ve been MATURE since I was a little kid.

And there are plenty of old people — elderly — who are STILL immature and by then, they’ve experienced damage, pain and suffering altho severity is dependent on how cushy & privileged of a life they had!

The pain and suffering experienced by people born into money is really NOT much, imho.

They are CLUELESS to actual suffering cuz they really have no idea what it’s like cuz their money has prevented them from REALITY of how things actually are and work in the world!

Kendrick Lamar diss by 🇨🇦Drake continues! 😅

🇨🇦Drake - “Taylor Made Freestyle” ft. 2Pac (A.I.) & Snoop Dogg (A.I.) [Lyrics]

https://youtu.be/vfxfwf-WNQg?feature=shared

Omg, this is an AMAZING song & mv from them!!

I have been into British band Oh Wonder for years and never met anyone else who has even heard of them!

🇬🇧Oh Wonder - “All We Do”

https://youtu.be/xPGREQvK-dQ?feature=shared

Will you be posting Tapas pics? Gracias! Hope you guys are having fun in Barcelona!

And Girls in their 20s fucking men twice their age or older:

Imho, you are either fking STUPID, DESPERATE, MONEY Hungry Whore or SHALLOW AS FUCK!

One More Note:

*APPROPRIATE* age dating!

That means you shouldn’t be fking girls who are half your age cuz they are WAY *TOO* YOUNG for you and in a WAY *DIFFERENT* Life Stage as you!

GROW THE FUCK UP!

Unsolicited Advice to People, especially to GEEKS:

It is VERY VERY IMPORTANT & ESSENTIAL In Life to have ACTUAL irl human being friends!

I suggest doing natural (non-surgical) things to become as *PHYSICALLY* ATTRACTIVE as possible, smell good (not too much nor overpoweringly strong cologne!) and DEVELOPING *BETTER* SOCIAL SKILLS!

Get off your damn 🖥️🎮💻 & 📱 and LEARN how to actually TALK to People and hang out in *NON-virtual* space!

I am talking about hanging out *IN* PERSON, face-to-face, with another human being person!

I’ve wasted enough of my VALUABLE time on here — obvi don’t know what the 1/2 thing you Smart Geeks are talking about but this = my last post for today!

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Had I been able to afford to buy Technics SL1200s in my 20s, I’m certain that I would have become a Girl DJ 🎧 travelling the world 🌎🌏🌍 and also doing Fashion and other artistic things.

Style = Timeless

Some people are just born with it!

It’s INTUITIVE and no one taught them anything nor do they need a Stylist to dress them.

They see GOOD style and can recognize it!

Unfortunately, this is a teeny % of people who are born with an *innate* sense of style.

Many people really DO need a Stylist to make them look better!

Frumpy Adults = BORING!

What I notice first when I meet someone or walk into a room is what people are wearing and GOOD hair!

Out of the goodness of my heart, I have given free makeovers to several guy friends.

One of them — SUPER SMART — looked completely different, like a NEW Man.

He got tons of compliments, including from girls and his family loved the transformation! That was a several month project in the making.

He had a crush on me, rather annoying, so I had to tell him to STOP staring at me so much when we hung out.

I advised that he get a subscription to Esquire magazine, which I used to get years ago because they have good writing and attractive, stylish men.

Anyway, Geek Guy Friend found a longterm gf!

GRATEFUL & THANKFUL that I have so many friends and know people around 🌎🌏🌍 (even tho *NOT* a People Person!) in case I wanna fking DESTROY THEM cuz they fking PISSED ME OFF ROYALLY!

Blessed! 🙏🏼