"İnsan bu dünyaya kendini büyütmek için doğar.
Önce kendini doğurup büyüteceksin."
via Arayış, Disney +
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Son zamanlarda duyduğum en etkili cümle...
Aramızdaki fark şu: Sizin bana anlattığınız masalların hepsine kısmen veya tamamen inanarak veya yaşayarak ömrümün çoğunu geçirdim. Siz benim baktığım noktadan hiç bir zaman bakmadınız.
Ben sizi anlıyorum.
Siz beni anlamıyorsunuz.
Bu kibir değil.
Deneyim.
Anlamak zorunda değilsiniz.
Belki bir gün anlarsınız.
Veya anlamazsınız.
Hiç önemli değil.
Sizin hayatınız, sizin seçimleriniz. Benim hayatım. Benim seçimlerim. Ben mutluyum. Hep mutluyum. Bazı olaylara tepki vesem, kızsam da mutluyum..
Benimle ilgili empati yaptığınızda doğru olma ihtimali %1. Fazlası değil. Bu da kibir değil.
Ben hayatı tersten okuyorum.
Ve hayatı Esma-ül Hüsna ile okuyorum. Benzer fikirlerimiz tabi ki olabilir. Ama bütünüyle olma ihtimali umarım olmaz.
Kopya insan olmayalım 🤗
I don't use drug. I don't need drugs.
You maybe need people to be happy/ mellow etc.
Not me.
My psychology is not dependent on people.
I don't use humans as a source of energy either.
I know love very well. Hormone. Here's the thing:
Are your hormones going to rule you? Are you going to manage your hormones?
I manage my hormones now.
Your life. it's your choice.
My life. My choice.
hahahahah.
Love is a hormone.
Please don't take love as something big.
For your own freedom.
Otherwise it's none of my business :)
I'm already in love.
To God.
To myself.
To my free life. : )
I thought bigots were only in countries like ours.
I mean, those who give women the task of procreation and washing up shit.
And those who present it as something sacred.
The world will not be able to get rid of these bigots.
Hey wake up.
You are human.
Not woman..
Motherhood is not holy.
Family is not important.
You don't need these to be happy.
Their absence is not a cause for unhappiness.
If that's your way of satisfying your ego, fine.
Don't generalize it.
Because not everyone believes these fairy tales.
They reaffirm their egos otherwise..
I found myself. Without kids and husband..
I thanks God for this everyday. 🙏
I'm 46 years old..
And don't be silly to think I couldn't have them.
I didn't want.. Everyone can find If they want.
I love my life.
Without kids, husband, pets, flowers..
If I regret this at 60, then the max I live 30 years. My 60 years will be perfect.
And I just have family.
Very big one :)
The term is not over. There was a shortcoming in the homework we submitted last week. The professor gave us time to complete.
I'm sorry the holiday hasn't started. But it was good to be able to complete the homework. I'll try to finish it this night :)
Forgiveness is also an act of arrogance.
It is also an act of sadomasochism.
It is arrogance that you have the power to forgive or not forgive someone when they do something you don't like.
Suffering by not forgiving that person is masochism.
If that person cares, then not forgiving that person is sadism.
Term is over.
Holiday time 🥳🥳🥳
I hope I can have a new project job soon..
But if not, I have a lot of work to do.
I should finish a book.
And I shoul start a master's thesis..
Of course they don't want people to be free.
They don't want to lose their control.
They are like bigots who don't want women/young people/children to be free.
Even men. They are raising them as poor people who need women. By placing responsibilities on men, they want them to be dependent on the strong.
They just want us to live within the limits they allow.
I will say it again.
You either want freedom for everyone, or you don't want it for anyone.
And not just economic freedom. Total freedom.
We also need to get rid of the begging of attachment, dependency, love, praise, attention, approval that enslave us.