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Roman Simon
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.

If you want to understand why the world is full of lies and why people are so easy to deceive, read or listen to Malcolm Gladwels @Gladwell brilliant book "Talking to Strangers".

When an event happens and smarter people say it was staged, you become angry and start explaining with your logic and weak understanding of the subject that it was not staged, that it was real.

But you are not a professional in the fields involved. And professionals find evidence that it is fake.

It seems unrealistic to you because you are ignorant, and that's okay. It was staged by professionals, they're ahead of you and can easily deceive you.

Remember every single story and narrative your rullers shoved into your throat was a lie.

But now it is true, somehow.

Stay conscious, skeptical, awake, mindful, and perspicatious.

Talking to strangers is very satisfying. There are so many interesting people... 🌞

I was the most shy and introverted person for most of my life. Then I decided to change it. Now, I am the most extroverted communicative funny individual.

You're not the person you are, you are who you decide to be.

Everything is possible. The only thing necessary is decision. https://video.nostr.build/91c6e34be1980edf7b3be0958d831edc53bf6754d102e0e890edd114e67376fc.mp4 https://video.nostr.build/ceae8a2ef9d1810299c763785a91dd2a531034f5193ac99f1a74346c4ed4550c.mp4 https://video.nostr.build/457f3643cf77a3a512917dd7abfa333ddeeb2b6127bfd5406e7163937cab4271.mp4

There are different levels of understanding.

There are 1400000000 drivers in the world. But there are 776 F1 drivers.

Lots of people know how to drive a car, but very few do it at the maximum performance level.

We all know lots of things about life, relationships, money, health, but many live miserable lives.

Your level of understanding may be holding you from building the life you want.

You know life, OK. Now, go deeper! There is always a deeper level that may propel you forward.

99% of men can't walk up to a woman they like and talk to her.

We click on the like button when we read a post that makes us feel good. This way, we build an echo chamber, which leads to closed-mindedness and degradation.

The next time you read something, try a different approach — like when you become angry.

To learn how to catch fish, ask the fisherman, not the fish.

This post is not about fishing.

Shyness and friendless are not masculine treats. If you're shy with women, don't be surprised when you are put into the friend zone.

If you want to lose weight and become healthy, eating less and doing treadmill is the worst thing you can do. Especially if you eat processed 'food' full of carbohydrates.

The correct way is to eat only real food (meat, eggs, fish) and avoid any artificial crap, which is full of carbs.

Also, it is important to be physically active: walk outside, lift weights in the gym, and communicate with people.

All this will set up your hormonal system and put you in healthy lean beautiful state.

If you don't fully understand what you are doing, it is okay.

Think about it, analyze, imagine, talk to people. Even if you don't sound sane or rational.

Someone may think that you're crazy, but It doesn't matter. What matters is that you're communicating with the world, and it's another level of involvement.

You can't just do everything on your own, you gotta make it real!

Whatever is happening to you is exactly whatever you need to happen to become the person you are destined to become.

To be lean, healthy, and masculine, we need to get all the required daily nutrients and protein, while consuming as little calories as possible.

With modern 'food' it is very easy to get lots of calories quickly. If we don't focus on the nutrients/protein and avoid useless calories as much as we can, we will always look chubby.

Is the thing you're putting in your mouth adding to your nutrient goal? If not, avoid it.

Eat the best food that has the most nutrients with the least calories, which is meat/eggs/fish...

There is one metric everyone evaluates the importance of content nowadays: reach/engagement.

There is much more important thing no one considers: impact.

Everything influences change. What impact do you have on the world?

If you do something, do your best. And if you do your best, you are doing it perfectly, so do it proudly with your head held high. Don't ever dare to devalue it with doubts, excuses, justifications, or apologies. People will respect you for doing your best and appreciate whatever you do.

F1 supercars use E10 fuel. But you can't use the same fuel in your car to get the same performance; it doesn't work that way.

Trying to mimic Mr. Olympia's eating and training style to get jacked won't work either.

We need to understand how things work and create an individual routine for ourselves.

You will learn and grow when you start doing things you can't do, not the other way around.

Do things you're interested in, don't wait for the perfect moment. The moment will be perfect as you progress!

Walk outside, talk, communicate, enjoy the world around you. Stop wasting your life on the treadmill in the gym.

When you have done everything you can, it's time to start doing things you can't.

If you breathe, if you move, and if you do anything at all, you will fail. And there are two kinds of perceptions about it.

The first is negative: you failed, it's bad, you're incompetent and stupid... This kind of thinking leads to regression and self-destruction.

The second is positive: you failed, it's good, you're incompetent and learning... This is the way of progress and success. The more you focus on your goal and the more you learn from failures, the more successful you will be.

She wants to be sure you're the best option she can get.

The worst thing you can do is to limit her, try to 'protect', do not allow her to communicate with people, be jealous... It will lead to resentment, disgust and depression.

The best thing you can do is to be the best, work on yourself and your purpose... If she thinks you're the best, she will submit to you and will be happy.