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Jordan Eskovitz
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Multidisciplinary artist. Partner at VRTCL. Partner npub1h74f0euxvsdjhralqrsf9uz40ag4exeddxlply3065xr22ey9ldqt8h043. Designer & Photographer at Crossway. Christ is Lord. Festina Lente. #design #art #artstr

So much of good communication with anyone—in this case, women—is asking good questions, listening to answers/responses, and then asking good follow up questions. By good I mean genuine, thoughtful, and fitting. They don't need to be complex or clever. Nor should you ask as if conducting an interview. Rather, in a way that displays that you genuinely care to know the person and what they think.

What qualifies as a *good* question will also vary a bit based on context and how established the relationship is. If meeting someone for the first time think about where you are—a party, a bar, a bowling alley, a library, a bitcoin meetup, a concert—and think of questions based on that context. Also, smiling, saying hello, giving your name, and asking a basic conversation starter question goes a long way..

Ill note that women have a strong radar for unspoken communication too. How you compose yourself—do you shrug, shuffle your feet, and look down a lot? Do you make eye contact? Do you smile? Do you respect personal space? etc.

This all communicates a lot to a woman, often within mere seconds of a first encounter.

Lastly, a woman worth having will not be won by how rich you are.

"A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention"

Proverbs 15:18

"Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger"

James 1:19

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"Anger is temporary madness"

Not a banger but a solid LP song. Sounds a bit more like their older work.

I agree with your assessment. It does leave me wanting. Would be great if they embraced longer songs with more variety of movements. They certainly have the skill for it.

“Courage is almost a contradiction in terms. It means a strong desire to live taking the form of a readiness to die."

Chesterton, Orthodoxy

Not FOSS but a solid option for V4V sat streaming and supporting podcastser without middlemen.

I saw this immediately after posting the same thing 😅

“Let your credo be this: Let the lie come into the world, let it even triumph. But not through me.”