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Jeroen Ubbink
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Software developer, bitcoin enthusiast

I think you can still make it sound ok with intonation and good pauses in between. But definitely learned something here. Thanks!

https://v.nostr.build/X6DYSfV6oSagPD82.mp4 #asknostr What do you think happens to the bitcoin price when the wallstreet suits receive their bonus ? maybe it's time to buy a little bit. for when it catches on. ๐ŸŽถ Pura vida ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซก Have a nice Friday ๐Ÿซ‚โšก๏ธ๐ŸงกโœŒ๏ธ

I thought they were not getting any bonuses this year? ๐Ÿ˜‡

You sound a lot like me. I have some enforcement now because i live with my wife and i have 2 kids and that forces me in the right direction, however i feel like i still need tons of discipline and i find it really hard to muster that up. It makes me frustrated and then angry, not liking myself.

Having this waking realization of this bothering you seems to be the first step in the right direction. I would just start with something simple until it becomes so habitual that you barely notice it anymore.

Simple examples:

- Put your dishes in the dishwasher after eating and clean the kitchen mess after every meal.

- Make your bed when you get out.

- Clean your toilet once a week.

- Take 5 minutes every week to go around and put away random stuff that you kept lying around.

Don't do all these things at once, it will be too much and you'll get sick of it and stop doing any of these things. Only add when you feel like the thing you tried feels normal. It may take 3 months or 6 months but you have to keep improving slowly and steadily.

Additionally "12 rules for life" by Jordan Peterson made me appreciate these things more. Life is suffering. You need suffering to feel satisfaction.

Also don't beat up yourself too much about the things in life that don't go so well. To me you seem like a great person and you produce awesome software! That's more than most people have going for them!

I'm surprised you managed to sticks around for so long. I did not even stop reading it on purpose, it just slowly evaporated away from my daily life through the course of a couple of months.

Whenever i search for something now and a reddit post pops up in the results 9 out of 10 times the whole thing is already deleted. They only allow one type of person on that site now.

Ah yes i just now noticed i can click on edit of one of pablo's replies and it goes through a huge list of edits. It does tell me how little i actually thought about the problem and there is really no easy way around it.

I could just block a spammer who is clearly abusing it?

To form a proper opinion on this i guess i'll have to go through everything that has happened in between fiatjaf's post a while ago and then all the way up to this point to not look stupid and ask the same questions that have already been answered.

Guess I'm just gonna have to ride out this one. I love amethyst and even if you end up choosing to remove the edit feature or make it always show the original (forgive me if it's already there and i haven't found it) i'm fine with it, i just hope a resolution does not have be accomplished by a burned out dev on either side of the table.

Pfff this is a really hard nut to crack.

I mean i understand you want to make an example post of things that could be to make a point, but actively trying to destroy something at this stage of development seems very weird too.

Is this really about amethyst becoming the centralized client or simply a problem with (and a hard stance against) edits? If this about it becoming centralized i think other clients have to step up their game instead of actively trying to take the most used one down. In the end one of the clients will become the most used one.

Can this then not easily be fixed by offering users a way to go trough previous events to see what was edited (and thus remove the spam? If that is what it turns into?) Is the edit a NIP or is it just a custom way amethyst implements an existing event? All the previous events should usually still exist right? It's like deletion, you can request it but there are no guarantees of a relay honoring it.

Maybe i am oversimplifying it. I have not been part of any of the discussions on this topic. I just hope this could be resolved without so much mud throwing, we need more nostr devs building stuff instead of actively attacking eachother and making it personal.