I've made so many futile attempts to get people on here, people that I KNOW would love it, but lose them immediately lol nostr:note14c7ndnr0z49d9rfah0w2p6kp78dx63amhw76aq9lg9hgpgzz2hmsmm38q7
I think we all do sometimes ๐
(ty for the zap love ๐)
People identify with their opinions so hard that anything that challenges them is taken as a personal attack. Hopefully they realize that someday!
Same, some things need to bake a little before I can gain any momentum!
Reprogramming constantly in progress, always and forever ๐ฅฒ
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Yes they are!! I'm on one right now. But it's still in the name of being productive though ๐คฃ
Very true! Something engrained deeply in me wants to label rest as "doing nothing" and then judge that behaviour, which I know makes no sense haha
I'll have to remember to schedule in some spontaneity too!! Haha jokes aside this is a great tip actually, thank you ๐
Just realized MBTI is Meyers Briggs ๐คฃ๐ I'm an ENFP
Oooh, will do!
No matter how hard I try (and I do try, I'm extremely mindful of it) I always feel guilty if I'm not super busy or don't reach a certain threshold (which I arbitrarily set for myself in a different time and place) of productivity.
What's worse is that my best ideas come to me when I'm doing nothing for a while, and my mental health is better cause I have time to process and contemplate. I'm also noticeably more creative after I give my mind time to be idle, yet despite knowing that and telling myself it's okay - necessary even - I still feel guilty deep down when I do it!
Anyone else feel this way? How do you get over it....
#asknostr #thoughtstr
Ugh I love it so much ๐คค 
Hahaha I lowkey kinda like it ๐คฃ
The professor of rizzics has arrived ๐ฅธ #rizzchain
The following list is a beta test, to be checked by nostr:npub12n7xd8xvqwj8k0v44yg3hlwutyyx85n28xx8zjwj6dykswuy28yqu7xsq4 AKA The Love Doctor first.
(Also not for married men to read ๐คฃ, you guys won already ๐ญ๐)
Disclaimer โ this is just for laughs, and totally my personal list (with inspiration from nostriches) and ๐ฏ% wonโt work for every women/romantic interest and so not to be taken seriously (for the most part).
Do:
*Give her a cheesy pickup line to keep things โspicyโ๐ฅ โ make it โpunnyโ (inspired by nostr:npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap).
*Give her your jacket when sheโs obviously cold. Sheโs not fine, sheโs lying. (But don't chaase after her with it or anything). And if she offers to share it with you, she LIKES you.
*Write her love letters. Not every day, but enough times in life to show her you care. Make it a life habit, like paying rent ๐ค
*hug her like a koala bear hugs trees ๐จ
*Shower together - not all the time, but you get it
*Cook together - see above
*Be still together ๐ค - see above
*Let her rest her head on your shoulder
*Communicate - even Henry VIII kept in touch with Anne Boleyn when travelling... before he had her killed...
*Compromise โ no one is perfect. Humans arenโt built to be. We are made to want perfection though ๐ฅน. Be perfectly imperfect together ๐ซ why not?
*Accept flaws โ if theyโre worth it ๐ฏ(see above)
*Be there when their dog dies ๐ญ
*Walk on the side of traffic, itโs sweet
*Give her the last cookie. If she offers to split it, sheโs a keeper. If she doesnโt, sheโs going to break your heart ๐. Nah I'm just joking... probably...
*Good morning and good night texts/phone calls ๐
*Exchange t-shirts/hoodies
*Hold her hand ๐ฉท
*Kiss her forehead, hand, cheek ๐โจ
Do NOT:
*Repeat your stories 5 times a day... I think she heard you ๐ญ
*Forget special occasions
*Mention weight ๐ตโ๐ซ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธโ๏ธโ ๏ธ
*say โI love youโ without meaning it. And if you do mean it, say it sparingly, and show it often ๐ means more this way.
*Steal all her pens. Annoying.
*Use baby talk too much, if at all ๐๐ตโ๐ซ
*Sit on her lap. I mean you can, but... yeah ๐ค
*Play her your bad music that you wrote ๐ฅฒ
*Steal her food ๐ป
*Hog the covers โ๏ธ
*Steal all her left socks โ
*Call her bro too much
*Go to bed mad at each other
*cheat ๐
*No hitting, biting of scratching โ unless thats what youโre into ๐ค
*Call her baby (inspired by nostr:npub1y67n93njx27lzmg9ua37ce7csvq4awvl6ynfqffzfssvdn7mq9vqlhq62h) babe is cute though ๐ฅน
*Check her phone. Mutual trust is sexy ๐
*Be mean to get her attention ๐ญ negging sucks. Banter is cool though ๐
*Open her eyelids when she sleeps ๐
*Open the door for her, then stop her walking in first ๐ญ whyyy
*kiss her neck when you arenโt even dating ๐ตโ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ฝโโ๏ธ
*if sheโs not reciprocating, DO NOT GO IN FOR THE KISS. Abort, abort, abort! Trust me ๐
*Be majorly egotistic/arrogant ๐ (inspired by the lovely nostr:npub1suwxj6qxnts2ls8jr0lpjy95386kr9y5ckn7qep5c95063wcj5eqh4rlxf (who I should also add is none of those things๐))
*Carry a list of past partners around to show dates ๐ (inspired by a nostrich, he knows who he is๐๐คฃ)
*Lie ๐ but donโt be brutally honest ๐ญ I dunno, there must be a middle ground, surely
Well, I've clearly got far too much time this Sunday so I'm going to go do some work ๐ญ๐ฅน๐๐ค
A great list!!! ๐คฃ especially "open her eyelids when she sleeps" hahahah I am dying
Good day!
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Time for bed ... thanks nostr:npub1el3mgvtdjpfntdkwq446pmprpdv85v6rs85zh7dq9gvy7tgx37xs2kl27r nostr:npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap and everyone on Nostr nests tn #babechain ๐ฅฐ so fun!
๐ฒ๐ฎโ๐จ hope you feel better soon!