War on cash. "Public" parks already don't accept it.

You ever just turn the shower on highest temp, sit on the toilet, and let your bathroom become a sauna

This is my take:

The nuance is in zapping someone with the intent of getting their attention or affection.

The sad reality is that there’s demand for that because there’s dry people out there not getting any and are also desperate for both. Most people could get out of that hopelessness by focusing on themselves and having a purpose rather than chasing tails.

The mere act of zapping someone for the content they produce is perfectly fine on my book. Sending each other value/energy freely is a powerful tool. Tools are devoid of intenten.

Also, quick hot take:

If we're judging people based on whether or not they pay others for content they enjoy... Nostr is in a lot of trouble *cough zaps cough*

OH MY GOD THANK YOU. Pickup artists are immoral (in my opinion) because they violate a lot of the consent rules of FRIES (another kink acronym):

Freely given (many pickup artists pressure their victims)

Reversible (they will FREAK if you initially agree and then change your mind)

Informed (they consistently encourage lies)

Enthusiastic (again with the pressuring)

Specific (again with lies, omission, or vagueries)

Findom does not inherently violate any of these, and while there are bad actors in every community, immorality is the rule in pickup artistry. Not the exception.

Even within kink, findom (financial domination) is frequently misunderstood and heavily judged. You don't hear much about it aside from generalized attacks as a result. As in all cases, RACK: Risk Aware Consensual Kink. So long as everyone is being as aware and safe as they possibly can, and not affecting literally anyone outside of the dynamic, who tf cares 😂

As men age their sexual value tends to be tied to finances.

Women's sexual value tends to be tied to youth.(18 +)

This is completely separate from their overall value as a person.

A simp is somone who fawns over somone extensively. While it started as an insult, it's also become a favored degradation term in the kinky community, akin to "slut" as an example.

As for the paying people thing, that is also a kink. Most financial submissives (or finsubs, the official term for said kink) enjoy being called simps. However, not every guy called a simp by the vanilla masses is a finsub, and even within the kink community, you can still simp for someone without a financial aspect.

Hope this added context!

"He was such a simp - fawning all over that girl..."

😂😂 no,it was me. I honestly had 0 clue how hard posting was going to be. I either didn’t have enough battery or didn’t have reception. When I woke up this morning I went to make the post only for half the pictures to be on my husband’s phone… it’s been a process. 😭😂

"He was such a simp - fawning all over that girl..."

A simp is someone who puts another person on a pedestal and all but worships them like a goddess.

They are a sycophant, and often pays the person on the pedestal money.

Only fans is a real life example.

He was a simp for .

Its pathetic.

Shoutout to all the content creators. It takes serious discipline and dedication. I tried it out yesterday and failed miserably🤣

Difficult day, will speak with more hope tomorrow. I guess I needed to stop using Nostr to avoid the sadness and just process it.

If all goes well, tomorrow I am making music. That usually gives me a recharge to fight through the incoming BS.

Thank you for your time, for spending it near me in a difficult moment. Truly appreciated 🫂💜