When something triggers you often points to your unresolved emotions, unmet needs or aspect of yourself that you may not acknowledge. Maybe this can also manifested into shadows
For example if you got triggered by someone else success, maybe it reflect desire for recognition
If you got triggered by someone ability to express themselves or their intimacy (jealousy), maybe it reflect on desire of love, attention or secure love that is missing
What triggers you is a mirror to yourself
What triggers you reveals the inner work you need to do.
What triggers you reflects something you secretly desire.
This is exactly why - men often avoid expressing emotions, fearing it makes them appear weak. However, suppressing emotions can lead to mental health issues, physical problems, and strained relationships.
Why Men Need to Learn Tantra
1. Emotional Awareness - #Tantra teaches men to connect with their emotions, which is often overlooked in today's society. Many men are taught that expressing emotions is a sign of weakness, but this mindset can lead to an imbalance in their masculine and feminine energies. A truly healthy masculine expression includes the ability to embrace and express emotions, reflecting a balanced and developed feminine side.
2. Intimacy and Connection - Tantra fosters deep intimacy and connection with your partner through conscious sexual practices. By harnessing sexual energy, Tantra not only enhances your relationship with your partner but also transforms your relationship with yourself. Additionally, it teaches control over sexual energy, leading to improved vitality and overall health.
3. Healing Past Traumas - Tantra provides powerful tools for healing past traumas and emotional wounds. Its meditations, which focus on the body rather than the mind, penetrate the subconscious to help break old patterns and lead to a more fulfilling life.
If you're interested in exploring Tantra more deeply, there's a retreat happening this October with one of my favorite schools. There are still two spots available for men, so feel free to DM me if you'd like more details.
Nostr will be the refugee camp for mainstream social media censorship
Bitcoin in Tantra’s perspective
Tantra teaches us self awareness, where Bitcoin teaches us external awareness
You can only understand Tantra by experiencing it. You can only understand Bitcoin by verifying it (sending payment, self custody, running node)
Enjoy your monday morning with my Ecstatic Dance set
I just got my new Pioneer DJ controller and have been playing around with it while mixing an ecstatic dance set for your enjoyment. The mix also includes a debut song called 'Breath of Pleasure' from our latest music project, 'Alive with God'.
Throwback bitcoin meetup for Indo only at nostr:npub1fpqlfgejlvnv5swanf0398y6k9vvheqs9g4zmjlthrga7ytn53dq3pqwcz
I hung out with my tantra friend after my usual Sunday ecstatic dance, and it turned into a discussion about tantra and bitcoin.
I love these two communities so much, and I feel so happy that finally they start to merge.
The magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding
Goddess Lakshmi paved the way for me to understand Bitcoin and my journey to the Bitcoin space. This is my thought on her relations to Bitcoin - Happy reading
https://dearezkitha.com/what-goddess-lakshmi-taught-me-about-wealth-and-bitcoin/
If you want a different outcome
Be aware of your repeating pattern
And practice yourself to break away from it
Your relationship is your catalyst for personal growth.
If after spending time with your partner you haven’t grown yourself to be a better person, you have to rethink your relationship.
Tantra gave me tools and methods to express and feel my emotions so I can lead a productive day.
Often times, we suppress our emotions, and it ruminates inside of us. When the emotions are not fully expressed, then the mind will take over instead.
Letting your mind process your emotions is counterproductive because often it will get stuck in a loop. It will then create another type of emotion, which is frustration.
So instead, learn the method to express these emotions: Pillow beating, dance, shaking, somatic movement, and breathwork are some of the tools to tap into those emotions.
The beauty of this method is that you don't have to analyze the "why." Sometimes emotions don’t have a logical reason.
Because whatever things you don't express will leave a mess.
(Sharing the most beautiful photo of this process taken by my husband at one of the best tantra retreat I have joined)
I have been playing around with my new DJ controller and collecting some new music. All I can say that there are so many crap music out there that I suspect all are generated with AI
To resist change is to resist life.
Every seven years, your body renews every cell.
With each cycle, you become a completely new person.
Don’t resist change, for it will happen whether you embrace it or not.
The only thing that never changes is something that is no longer lives.
At the ecstatic dance today, the crew made this beautiful reminder: Love (and bitcoin) is the answer
But during my dance I got another realization: “We spend a lot of time remembering the past and dreaming about the future, which makes us forget to just live in the present. To be in your body is to live in the present moment”
