My harshest critic is my husband. Most people can’t honestly say that, but I can.

He’s always my final boss when trying to assert an idea. He’s super smart and usually comes at things from a different angle. And he’s my primary editor. He’s also the head of my website’s customer support center.

Unlike my social media where I shoot from the hip and fuck around, I post detailed articles on my site only after my harshest critic gives me his feedback.

And he doesn’t phrase things like a loving husband normally would. He goes over the top.

He’ll literally put comments on my drafts like “This is fucking right wing trash Lyn. I know you were raised in a trailer park so I don’t expect much, but do better. Rephrase literally all of this.”

That sounds abusive but it’s humorous in practice given our context when working.

We’re not very politically different, but I tend to lean slightly righter than him, so that’s a common source of debate. I pull him right and he pulls me left, not as people who are far apart but who are slightly apart but both opinionated and debate over every inch. It’s on an issue by issue basis.

Mostly he does those comments for humor, but partially because he wants a debate and will bring like a well-researched150 IQ argument to hold the line as I try to argue through his defenses. And I write my research for investment clients of all political views, left and right, globally, as objective as possible, and so he purposely helps keep me straight and steelmans all my arguments for clients.

We debated in the early days about the vaccine in the pandemic, for example, back in 2020 and 2021. We’re still kind of debating about it now in 2025, both granting certain details to the other.

But whenever I write something of substance that is controversial, I know he will read it and call me a retard, which I have to push through and turn into a publishable article.

My social media posts are just me, whereas my long-form posts take time and argue through him.

I often post thoughts and gather comments on Twitter/X, since a lot of tradfi financial pros are happy to discuss. Then I write a piece, and my husband looks through it. I either agree or disagree, and then publish. I get the final say, but I only publish after I’m confident after his arguments.

TLDR; My summary from this whole rambling piece is that I suggest you find a close loved one who will call you a trailer park retard while challenging you on every piece you write while loving you.

Few people will do that but it’s important.

I was gonna make the "at this point I'm too afraid to ask" meme about it, but then I came across something about their tour or smth and looked it up, and decided now it was inappropriate for me to make the meme 😅

Unleashed.Chat v0.1.1 is live!

Now hit 1k+ users, this release adds more scalable infrastructure

-Vector embeddings of nostr notes now stored in Redis–fast again!

-Key infra components are now automated

- App health monitoring and automatic remediation in case of container crashes or similar

I’ve been working on an onboarding experience that allows new users to leverage an nsecBunker to onboard into nostr and immediately have:

* Keys interoperable with clients

* Sign-in to new clients by typing your nostr address and clicking “authorize this client”, exactly like “login with Twitter”

* Receive zaps to an LN Wallet (with any LNBits provider)

* Send zaps (through behind-the-scenes Nostr Wallet Connect negotiation)

No plugins. No extensions. No “you don’t have zaps, download this other app”

It just works.

This means new users can onboard DIRECTLY into having send+receive zaps without having to do anything.

How do I ask it about nostr things? Just mention nostr?

Any ideas what kind it is

gm 💜

reminds of this good old meme