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Venya (he/him/dude) πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡¦
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Recovering #USmil, house dad, #audio hobbyist and #musician in #Nashville. Low end of #VoidReclamation, Colors of Creation, #FallLineDrive, and your next #music project. Danger to myself and others with #Reaper, #ProTools, #Inkscape, #TrueNAS, and #Debian. Possibly a #Luddite. Definitely #AntiFascist. Posts auto-delete; life is short. Profile pic: gorgeous red bass 5-string bass guitar Header pic: stylized dark neon VU meter

I worked with a major once in the Army whose first name was Dana. I guarantee he got a lot of emails from subordinates addressed to "Ma'am" rather than "Sir,"

[including the first one I ever sent him before I'd met him]

but he is exactly the sort of person who would never in a million years put his preferred #pronouns in his email signature block.

It would have been such a simple thing, but being coded as "woke" is infinitely worse to such a mind than being mis-gendered.