I was a nomad till I married the most stable man ever 🤣 I went to 8 schools from year 1-12 and moved countries 6 times before I married. My dad used to get into trouble then just up and leave... Unlearning that habit was difficult.

Yeah I feel that.

Busan was nice.. More relaxed than Seoul which was nice, although I did get used to the rush rush culture of Seoul by the time I was done.

I've never been to the US so I can't confirm or deny that comparison.

Shame about the Korean language, but then I don't speak Te Reo despite grandma being Maori... I just speak Korean 🤣🤣

And your not scheduling lots of event that the other has to attend or randomly inviting friends around 😁

I was in Seoul for an exchange semester. But South Korea is not that big so I spent a weekend in Busan and visited a bunch of places.. When hubby visited I skipped class for five days and we went to Jeju Island 😏😂

Do you speak Korean? About the only thing on my bucket list is becoming fluent in Korean and being able to read political news and interviews in Korean...

Zara is in school now and has calmed down a little.

Maybe we aren't twins after all. I'm always up for adventure and not particularly attached to Australia. He's only ever lived in two cities in Aus... But I've also lived in London and New Zealand and spent months at a time that add up to a few years in Myanmar and just got back from five months in South Korea... He's stable and I love that about him and I'm flux just for the sake of it.

Oh, I'm pretty sure I was more extraverted and he more intravert when we started dating but it was still plenty awkward 🤣

I enjoy watching my nephew (15 months) explore but when my nice was the same age she was a handful.. They have different dads and different parenting styles which might have had something to do with it...

Haha... We've been in the same house for 7 years and the same city for 11 years.. But I want to move to South Korea and he wants to stay in Australia 🤣 I guess I'd never considered where we live as difficulty but there's something to that.

Living up to my husbands and his family's expectations of me... Although that might not be fair.. I mean I'm almost finished university and I said the other day that I don't want to work in government any more and maybe I'd go back to waitressing and his response was, "you know you're made for more than that"

Oh and he's a total extra cert always wanting to go out and stay out, but I'm super introverted. Juggling that is sometimes difficult...

Yeah, I might be a little jealous that you have kids.

As for bad advice.... Hopefully I've forgotten and ignored most of it... Oh wait... "Bitcoin isn't going anywhere, ignore it" that counts as bad advice I took on board about ten years ago and now regret.

I did a little sleeping around (and party drugs too for that matter) in my teen/early twenties... It wasn't as fun as everyone makes it out to be. Actually, finding Jesus and getting married was way more long-term satisfying, you know? Stella's advice checks out.

Having a stable, committed bed partner is fun too 😏😉

Why not both 😁

Don't waste time trying to find "Mr Right" put your effort into becoming "Ms Right" and he will find you and make you "Mrs Right". But I spose you could swap the gender roles and it would still be good advice.

Bonus: Other great advice I've been given which actually checks out...

Check how your boyfriend treats his mother. That how he will treat you when it's no longer all about beauty/sex/keeping you as his girl. If he ignores her for games, when he's bored with you, he'll do the same. If he helps her cook and does the dishes, he will do the same for you... I guess once again you could swap all the gender roles...

FYI this advice is slightly incorrect in my experience, hubby treats me even better than he does his mother. 😁😏😉😀

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