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I may write in English, but my writings are based on my life experience as a Korean woman born and raised in Korea. This is my personal notebook dedicated to subjective views. Further objectification will be required before publication. Copying or distributing this unrefined version in its current state is strictly prohibited.

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I have a strong desire that people over the age of 20 stop wearing school uniforms. Watching them makes me feel uncomfortable, and I assure you that I am not a pedophile. Please don’t try to make school uniforms sexy! The world is already filled with horny teenagers who are desperate to look hot🥵. You don’t need to add to the problem. 🙄

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I just read a Korean tweet regarding Selena Gomez buzz, and..... 🤣 oh my God, I don't know what to say....

This note is not about Selena Gomez. Instead, it’s about a Korean influencer on 𝕏 who shared her interpretation of a situation in Korean, but her translation was incorrect (both linguistically and contextually).

Back when I was on Twitter, I used to make a lot of subjective comments about events happening in other countries. So, I can’t just brush off her tweets and laugh them off. Instead, we should all come together and celebrate our shared humanity, even if we’re all a bit silly sometimes. But hey, it’s embarrassing when we find out that we’re all idiots at heart! 🤣

Wow! I never imagined I would come across Robert Cialdini’s name on LinkedIn. (I found this from the LinkedIn profile of a behavioral consultant who wrote a book about Taylor Swift.) https://cialdini.com/

Likewise, I don’t feel insecure around gay men or transgender women unless they have toxic personalities. I don’t believe I have anything to compete with transgender women in a femininity competition. However, having a toxic personality is a different matter. If you’re a type of person who displays deep-seated misogyny and a general antisocial mentality that’s not suitable for a citizen in a democratic society, I think it’s wiser to consider that perhaps your place isn’t in the public sphere.

If an incredibly attractive man is gay (or trans-attracted, whatever) and doesn’t develop any sexual or romantic interest in women, I quickly lose interest and move on. I think that’s a healthy mindset for anyone to have. If I hold onto a gay man who doesn’t feel anything for me romantically, I think I would feel so pathetic about myself and possibly even kill myself, because it means I have nothing else going on in my life other than developing a hopeless crush for someone who’s never going to reciprocate. I think that’s the most foolish thing I can do with my precious time. nostr:note1f2lj3dzh4c697p62e9dsf5xqnlxvmn7ggfeya545f785q5n4flnsxylpnc

As someone who dedicated a substantial part of her life to researching and writing to establish the cultural norm that safeguards the fundamental rights of single-household families, I am at a loss for what else I can do to assist these individuals. Simply refrain from marrying someone you are not in a romantic relationship with. Do not make excuses after solemnly swearing in front of a large audience at your wedding and intentionally breaking that promise. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Or perhaps this is connected to the infidelity issue? I can relate to this because women also face similar issues with gay people. However, infidelity is not dependent on sexual orientation. There is no justification for anyone to be unfaithful to their spouse. I don’t believe I can make excuses for anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, disability, or any other factor. Rules are rules, and promises are meant to be kept.

I suppose this is the reason why some men harbor animosity towards lesbians. They perceive lesbians as stealing attractive women from them. So engrossed are they in their hatred for lesbians that they fail to realize that these women may never have had any romantic or sexual interest in them, regardless of their sexual orientation. (It’s likely that these men are insecure incels. If you’re an attractive man, why would you feel insecure about lesbians when you have the ability to seduce any woman you desire?)

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What if these are the realistic portrayals of lesbian femmes?

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How can you tell the difference between someone who simply finds this kind of photo aesthetically pleasing and unique, and someone who is actually a lesbian? Do you have reliable criteria for making such judgments?

In this era, we witness numerous individuals who claim to be part of the sexual minority solely to garner attention from others. The psychological makeup of these individuals may differ significantly from that of older generations. Being a sexual minority is no longer a stigma; it’s a way of expressing one’s uniqueness, particularly on social media platforms. It’s crucial for older individuals to recognize this distinction and refrain from discussing their lives as if they were still living in the dark ages. The world has evolved, and it’s essential to adapt to these changes.

I sense that many conversations involving sexual minority individuals revolve around their desire for invisibility as individuals while simultaneously emphasizing their significance as voters. They don’t want to attract unnecessary attention simply because they are minorities. However, they don’t want to face disadvantages solely because of their minority status. These conflicting desires often lead to internal contradictions in many of them. Furthermore, many political metrics designed for sexual minority voters were established before the advent of the Internet and social media. Therefore, it’s crucial to disconnect this outdated discourse and generate a new stream that could potentially evolve into a river and even an ocean.

I don’t intend to diminish the significance of lesbian couples who serve as public media figures. The current discourse surrounding marriage in heterosexual society is heavily biased due to outdated sexist cultural norms and the emerging feminist perspectives of younger generations. A well-crafted relationship between a lesbian couple could potentially broaden the scope of societal discourse related to marriage.

However, I expect these couples to embody many exemplary qualities because they will likely serve as crucial role models for numerous individuals in society, not limited to lesbians.

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근데 그래도 엽총은 안됨

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