I asked if he wanted help setting up the tv. He gave me a withering look. Right as I opened YouTube on my phone a reel started playing with a chick saying “Men suck. Men are dumb.” It was totally accidental on my part. He decided to program terminal with voice jabs at me.
I’m just being a dick and giving him shit. It’s fair play.
He moved into the situation? Cat was there first. Maybe advise that he take more time finding a more appropriate living situation and that he use earplugs in the meantime. Cats train a human more than you train them. Having been and had roommates with pets it’s seldom appropriate to chime in on their care and training. Better to screen for situations that are conducive to both parties.
Tell him to make the cat his. Let it sleep in his room. Have a new cuddle buddy. Make the cat’s current human jealous as fuck. She’ll be cuddling all night with her cat in no time.
In all seriousness sometimes cats sing the song of their peoples for no discernible reason. My cat seemed to like the acoustics of the stairwell at about 3-4 o’clock in the morning.
I’ve been working hard to actually do it this year.
I’d ask the universe to get a crack on with all this paperwork, clutter, memorabilia, etc. But I’m pretty sure the tornado missing my house was the universe’s way of saying that’s your job.
Hopefully I’ll get to see you IRL in 2024!
It’s taking a little longer to organize my entire life than I anticipated.
That would be fun! As of now it’s only sticking to the raised deck and the dogs. 🤣 Couldn’t make a snowball if you tried.
Good morning! It’s snowing! ❄️ This was unexpected. Think it’s too warm for it to accumulate.
That hits the feels, ouch! nostr:note1827dkd8573rnphw55jyxt58u7s8w6nfwfz8qlkx8e8qxfnlsmgqstmste6
So much of decluttering is repeatedly asking yourself, “Why did I feel the need to save this!?”
Angsty artwork from my early teens: 
