True. There is no true friendship if you can't be honest with each other
You are so sweet ๐ซ I am sure you will be a great mom. No matter when it will be ๐ you are such a loving person that you can even feel it here on a social media platform (okay, nostr is not just a social media platform) without ever having met you. I often think about my first time as a mom these days. I was so young... and naive ๐ I read everything about pregnancy, birth and the first time with baby. I was prepared (or so I thought ๐). I had planned everything. Then my son came...and with him came real life ๐ซฃ๐คฃ
Oh, so it's all biology? Or physics?
Someone who is already complete...that is so important! And it's often not seen that way. Nobody can make you "whole", you have to do it yourself.
that is beautiful ๐ซ in the end, love enriches us. Even if love sometimes sends us down painful paths
I don't have many close friends either.
๐ซ๐ฅนconnected souls
My ex-husband was never my soulmate. But I also believe that there can be more than one. My children are definitely the three souls in my life that stand above everything else. Maybe a different kind of connection
The interesting thing is. That I would never have described my ex-husband as my soulmate. ๐ค Not even when we were at our best ๐คฃ Nevertheless, there is one person in my life who is that for me. We've known each other for many years. Grew up together, went to school together. Always shared a lot with each other. But we were never a couple. We now live far apart. Sometimes weeks go by without us speaking. Then we see each other or talk on the phone and everything is the same. We chat through the night. And what particularly touches me. We seem to sense when one needs the other. Sometimes even before we know it ourselves.
I think that I was very open when I was young and quickly made connections with people. On very different levels. Then a lot of things happened. That made me closed off. But in recent years, I've gone back to being a (perhaps somewhat naive but) very approachable person. That feels good. I like being kind and being there for others
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๐ซ Yes, but you have to be open to it, be ready for these connections
That's a beautiful thought. Then there are lots of different people who make you shine
