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Lurking, posting occasionally, and zapping anonymously. Observing always. Pulmonaut nostr-java is my hobby project.

Starting 2024 in style.

A damaged gas pipe on the main road and gas leaking, all surrounding houses have been evacuated and the whole area cordoned off, with workers and police on the ground trying to secure and fix the problems.

We've been sleeping on couches at friends for two nights now, trying to avoid the community centre where all "refugees" have been gathered, spending days walking around, and stopping in cafes for long tea breaks.

I think I'm ready for whatever 2024 has in store for us. šŸ˜…

Fun fact:

Until1975, fifteen years after the independence, one could still travel from Cameroon/Africa to France with only a passport; there was no visa requirement.10 years later, it was still possible to use your CFA Francs in some places in Paris, or exchange them for French Francs at no cost.

How times have changed!!

https://unherd.com/?p=495464

Or rather, at this stage, focus on building bridges with other "friendly" protocols.

I haven't thought deeply about this, but maybe a network of interconnected networks/protocols/cultures is the future?

I doubt it's entirely due to the algorithms, I think it's more because of the people in the network.

Nostr is still very niche, and if/when it becomes more popular, I'm sure you'll see the same patterns becoming more apparent here, to the point that algorithms may be required to "fix" that.

But I'm also willing to admit the possibility of each social network having their own inherent "vibe," and nostr always remaining just as its pioneers intended...

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Very good value for money, but the Android client could be better...

Replying to Avatar Gigi

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To me, it sounds like a knee-jerk reaction from someone who has never been confronted with the ideas of freedom. They usually tend to believe that the State has our best interests at heart and therefore, only the State can efficiently organise society. They might be subject matter experts in their own fields, but it doesn't matter much if they can't think outside the box...

šŸ“Regent Street, London.

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(šŸ“Graphisoft Park, Budapest, Hungary)

Sitting on the floor is probably better for your physical health. Also, you don't really need that microwave, do you?

The problem with telegram is that it's not censorship-resistant, it doesn't have end-to-end-encryption, and user accounts are tied to real phone numbers.

Someone can report the group, and it may get banned (unlikely, but possible). If you want to discuss "difficult things," it's probably not the platform to choose, imho.

0xchat (nostr based, no group description though, but soon private groups support) and Simplex (not so simple, as you may think!) are good alternatives in my opinion.

Here's the best meditation app I've found.

https://meditationapp.wixsite.com/download-app/copy-of-privacy-policy

It's extremely privacy-conscious (no personal information required). I personally like the minimalistic approach, with focus on the essential, i.e.:

1) A configurable timer

2) A diary

3) Reporting

The app has a few minor bugs, but hardly noticeable and reproducible, and because the development seems to have stopped a few years ago, it probably means they won't get fixed anymore.

If you are thinking of starting a regular sitting practice, or need motivation with your current practice, I strongly recommend you give it a try. It is free of charge (the dev accepts tips), and, even more importantly, free of ads!

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DIVINE COMEDY

There are two kinds of suffering in this world: the kind that leads to more suffering and the kind that leads to the end of suffering. If you’re not willing to endure the latter, you will surely have more of the former.

— Zen Proverb

I know someone, it could just as well be you or me, who is constantly trying to figure out what’s wrong with her in order to get to the bottom of it. She’s tried medication, psilocybin, retreats and therapy, but to no avail. I don’t even know her that well, but I know what her problem is: that she thinks she has a problem.

None of the modalities she’s tried can resolve this essential problem. In fact, they reify it. All she needs to do is feel what she’s feeling and be who she is. But as the proverb goes, if you’re unwilling to do that, you’ll surely have the chance to keep ā€œfixingā€ yourself forever.

. . .

I’m not going to lie and say I’ve read Dante’s Divine Comedy, though I do have a copy on my old bookshelf in Los Angeles. I will borrow its paradigm of heaven, hell and purgatory, however, and assign my own interpretations to them, irrespective of the pace with which Mr. Alighieri circumvolves in his grave.

My idea of hell is scrolling through Twitter, playing a trivia game like Wordle or otherwise doing something that keeps you engaged but distracted from essential tasks and your own vital existence. Hell isn’t painful, in my view, it’s actually comfortable and easy, only there’s a nagging sense of neglecting something and a dread this procrastination cannot go on indefinitely. Hell is suppression of feelings, resistance to life. It’s tossing and turning in a futile attempt to sleep in.

Purgatory is painful. Avoiding it is why you remain in hell. It’s the raw emotion underneath the ceaseless mind chatter. The abyss in your stomach and throat, uncertainty in your mind, anxiety in your chest. It’s also the miserable jog around the track in the cold drizzle when your foot is sore, your back is tight, or you’re a little congested and just don’t feel up to it. Most of us hate purgatory.

Heaven is after the run, when you’re walking home, observations and ideas are flowing freely. It’s the sense of relief after you let an emotion speak its mind without interrupting it. It’s the state of calm that arises after you’ve burnt through the karma in purgatory sufficiently.

But spend a little time in its kingdom and pretty soon you find yourself back where you started, in hell. Heaven as a reward doesn’t last. Because a permanent state of heaven for doing good or working hard would be a stupid and absurd state of affairs, not commensurate with the world’s sublime workings, its fractal majesty. The Tao or God or whatever word you prefer isn’t a schoolmarm. You can’t curry favor with it, and you can’t game it with hacks.

All one can do is choose purgatory over hell as often as it presents itself. To choose the kind of suffering that leads to the end of suffering over and over again. At some point, I imagine, one’s capacity to suffer in purgatory is so profound the suffering itself is heaven, there is nothing to be avoided, nothing for which to be rewarded. The Buddha’s first noble truth was ā€œLife is sufferingā€ and maybe hell is only for those who would avoid it.

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It might sound harsh to see people struggling with their demons, trying to self-improve and dismissing their efforts. But as I said, this could just as well describe me. You have no problem except that you think you do. I’ll leave off with a George Carlin quote that sums this up nicely:

If you think there is a solution, you're part of the problem.

Whenever I feel something is wrong, and I can't really identify the cause, most of the time, it's because of chronic lack of sleep, or I'm avoiding something...

Distractions usually only make it worse.

Booking tickets online for The Lionking musical on Sunday, and witnessing algorithmic price manipulations on Disney's website.

After I returned to the website a second time, the price for the same seat went up by ~50%!

Changed my IP address, and I now get presented the original price again.

Gross.

There will always be something to criticise about someone with that level of visibility and responsibilities. I'm not saying the criticism is not always justified, but in a way it's a bit unfair, because ordinary people lives are not subject to the same level of scrutiny and pressures.

Elon, as a business man, has to do everything he can to maximise his profits, and in this way, he also makes our lives better.

I was banned from Twitter for no valid reason imo, but I will still say that Twitter/X today is by very far better than what it was under ALL its predecessors.

Absolutely. Everyone who wants to have their notes stored forever should either pay for the service or run their own relay. As simple as that.