Does anyone got any tips to get your girlfriend to stop cleaning your house? I made us dinner and she felt the needs to completely wash my kitchen and bathroom well I cooked π.
She doesn't even live here.... im trying to give her a relaxing night where she can lay in bed and watch whatever movie.. nope this woman is obsessed with cleaning π. She keeps telling me it relaxes her....
Itβs a blessing not a curse
ok, but how's the sex? you can hire someone to clean. ;)
Its a nervous system thing.
It makes her feel safe.
Maybe they had a strict parent or guardian.
Jump in and help her, not because anything is actually dirty or cluttered but because evidently its a priority for her and the quicker y'all finish the quicker y'all can enjoy the rest of the nightπ«‘
Sometimes we want our partner to take a load off and relax but they won't and that should be ok without us trying to fix it.
Extra points if you're playful and curious about it while addressing it instead of "baby please sit down and eat, that can wait"
She's from Kenya. She's a different creature lol. She just wants to feel like she's helping. I have no clue. I tried to get her to sit down but she's something else π
