I’ll use myself as an example. I been in bitcoin for about 4 years but only truly started understanding it in the last year. Now I’ve bought as much bitcoin as I can safely buy and now I’m stuck. So because I see it going up in the future I now want to acquire more. And I’m now wondering why I can’t be paid in bitcoin. I spoke to my boss who laughed. I’m also thinking there must be some way to earn it. I’m looking into small internet businesses which I can start and earn in bitcoin. So I’m not even considering censorship resistance or tax implications. I just want the better money. Other are going to go through this same process.
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I don't see the problem. Get paid in fiat, buy bitcoin. It's like a few mouse clicks to do this. You want your boss to change his whole accounting system to accommodate you're lack of desire to set up an auto-buy with river or some other exchange?
You can set it up so it just autobuys. I really don't see the problem. You make it sound like it's impossible to just buy bitcoin with fiat.
it seems like this issue you are having boils down to "I want my boss to buy the bitcoin for me instead of doing it myself" and I really have no idea why it matters to you who does the actual buying, you or him.
I dunno, I'm quite confused by your dilema.